
Our Tuesday morning Book Read group was recently challenged by an author to think of some of the people in their lives who have influenced them, memorably, for the good. Well, as I gave it some thought, the list immediately became very, very long. But it was an interesting journey through the years, past to present, and I will share with you some of the “influencers” whose lives, in some way, are etched upon the memory of my mind. I will mention a few by name and purposely conceal the identity of others:
- Pastor Day, first pastor, led me to Christ and with his hand on my head when I was too young to give it a second thought, called me his preacher boy;
- Grandma S who, in her own way, did the same;
- Principal W, whose even-handed way with elementary school children left its mark on my mind;
- Miss Flamme—8th grade English teacher whose love for language has not escaped me;
- Miss Sharp—old maid music teacher, co-worker with Miss Flamme, who made an indelible impression on a junior-high student who understood nothing about music but could appreciate a person totally dedicated to, and in love with, her profession;
- Mrs. James, Student Council advisor who infected a high-school junior with principles of leadership that made his love for basketball and football wane;
- Pastor Knauss, married to the “ideal” pastor’s wife, Nellie; through their sincerity and love of people and ministry, both cast a spell on a young man—heading at that time to study law—that has not yet escaped him;
- TK, a friend who shared a burden for ministry at a crucial time in my life, and whose friendship, common interests, and goals have impacted my life past and present;
- Richard Rupp, pulpit-speech teacher at Bob Jones University, whose personality, authenticity, and preaching affected this preacher boy for good—indelibly;
- Bob Jones, Sr., who in later years sometimes repeated himself in the course of a message, but whose life and labors and love for God permanently shaped young people, including myself, for good, for life;
- Marvin Beshears, father-in-law, embodiment of godliness, who pastored the same Carolina church for half a century while receiving an annual stipend or salary of $0 dollars; and whose life, totally consumed with pleasing God, impacted countless souls in northwestern North Carolina;
- Theodore Slutz, a Dad who wasn’t six feet tall but—to this kid and this man—was a giant in humility, servanthood, consistency, and loving devotion to his wife of 71 years;
- RVC, seminary president and local church pastor, a unique individual totally sold out to Christ and His Word (Isa. 8:20), who never saw a fight with a modernist that he hesitated to engage in, and whose life of ministry left its mark on anyone with whom he had to do;
- HH, teacher par excellence, whose infectious approach to Bible teaching was, well, infectious;
- JDP, a co-worker with HH whose 50 years of plain exposition of scripture—no frills, just expo—impacted class after class with a method of explaining scripture that was unquestionably flawless, faithful, and fixed;
- Phil Shuler, who had all the flash and frills, so to speak, but whose life-long ministry of faithful evangelism—with a heart especially for smaller churches, which he purposely carved out 12 weeks a year to minister to, at his own expense—found a corner in this pastor’s heart that has the word “Love,” in the purest sense of the word, written over it;
- Jerry S, Joe M, Gary G, and many other faithful evangelists—I loved them and will never forget them;
- Henry D, a deacon whose hand was like the Grand Canyon and whose smile as wide as the Mississippi, and whose heart like an apostle’s—a quiet force for the faith who was a friend, loyal and lasting, to his pastor;
- Monroe P, mission board executive, who dealt with the serious matters of eternity in a way that was compelling, but whose sense of humor and lack of condescension drew most anyone with whom he had to do closer to himself, yes, but more so—closer to the Savior;
- LDH, friend to any pastor committed to serving Christ, lover of ministry and ministers, trophy of God’s grace, still living at 91 and still ever, with his dear wife, on our minds;
- LW and CW, husband and wife who have been on the front lines of church planting missions for more than 60 years, still living amongst and loving the people whom they have led to Christ and discipled in obedience to His great commission;
- EMS—the prettiest, smartest, kindest “first lady” ever—who has been my companion, counsellor, comforter, and godly encourager for 61 years now and counting, and whose identity I am obviously not attempting to conceal!
A complete list? Not at all. I could add many more contemporaries, but for the sake of not embarrassing you, I will not (at least for now) so much as publish your initials. But you know who you are; believe me, I hold you in the highest esteem. And if God has been pleased to have done anything lasting and worthwhile for His Kingdom’s sake through my ministering, it is because of a cadre of tireless, selfless, dedicated, and devoted laborers whom I simply call “fellow workers.” Thank you all so very much. Each of you has your own “niche” in the above list—I can see it even if others cannot. “Thank you, Lord. Amen.”
“Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.” (I Cor. 15:58)








