Jealous Jeroboam (Kings and Priests, Then and Now—4th in a series)

“And hast made us unto our God kings and priests, and we shall reign with Him on earth.” (Rev. 5:10)

The Old Testament is not a dead book! It is replete with lessons on life and packed full with instructions. Every minute detail recorded for us by God’s Holy Spirit is for us to study and apply. As Paul said in I Cor. 10, whatever happened to those whose lives have been replayed in living color on the Old Testament pages are put into the Word of God for our learning and our admonition.

We have studied David, Solomon, and Rehoboam thus far. It should be noted again that, following the death of King Solomon, the kingdom was rent into a northern division of 10 tribes, most often referred to as Israel, and the southern 2 tribes of Judah and Benjamin, usually referred to simply as Judah. Solomon’s son unwisely chose to follow the counsel of his young peers as to how he should treat his subjects, while rejecting the wisdom of his aged counsellors. This decision resulted in the irreparable split of the northern tribes away from the southern. Rehoboam, Solomon’s son, became the first king of the southern sector; and Jeroboam, nemesis of Solomon, headed up the northern half of the divided kingdom.

It is with Jeroboam’s reign that this installment is concerned. First, one could say that Jeroboam was an enterprising soul. He was called a man of valor, and he proved himself to be industrious and capable of responsibility. In fact, the prophet Ahijah, who appeared to Jeroboam to announce that God was going to give the northern half of the kingdom to him, promised this young man that if he would faithfully keep God’s commandments, “I will be with thee, and build thee a sure house, as I built for David, and will give Israel unto thee.”(I Kings 11:28-40). This was an incredible promise to Jeroboam, son of a widow woman, who was generally considered “suspect” by his peers and was virtually an outcast.

Then, consider the expedience of Jeroboam, as we read of it in I Kings 12:26-30. Jeroboam lacked confidence in himself and in the promises of God. With a jealous heart, fearing his people would return to Jerusalem to worship, he built idolatrous places of “worship” where he had erected two calves, exhorting the people to “behold thy gods,” assuring them that it would be too far for them to return to Jerusalem annually to worship their God, so one calf was set up for worship in Bethel and the other in Dan; and God simply says “this thing became a sin.” Jeroboam did all this because he followed his own devices “in his heart.” (I Kings 12:26) Following one’s own devices most often has a bad outcome, especially when those devices lead us to do what God has forbidden us to do!

Next, note the encounter of Jeroboam at the very place where the young king had built altars to worship false Gods, I Kings 13. The encounter was with a man of God. God’s man, unnamed, prophesied that on this very altar a child who would be born, Josiah, would offer the priests that burn incense, and “men’s bones shall be burned upon thee.” (I Kings 13:2) The encounter continued as the power of God was demonstrated when the king’s hand, having been put forward against the prophet, instantly dried up as the altar was rent and its ashes poured out. Then, when the smitten king begged the prophet to ask God to restore his hand, and the king’s hand was restored, there was an encounter with the power of prayer, I Kings 13:6.

The evil of Jeroboam, whose beginning blossomed beautifully with God’s personal promises to him of greatness, was seen unmasked in I Kings 14, when Jeroboam’s son became sick and the king sent his wife, with cakes, crackers and wine, to ask the prophet Ahijah what the prognosis of his son’s sickness was. When the disguised wife approached the prophet Ahijah, the man of God had an answer ready for her, a message of “heavy tidings.” Because, Ahijah said, God had been so favorable to Jeroboam, giving him half of the kingdom that had been rent from David, and because Jeroboam was “evil above all that were before thee,” (I Kings 14:9) God would take the kingdom from Jeroboam; and when his wife’s feet would enter into the city, the sick child would die. (I Ki.14:12).

Jeroboam’s awful end is recorded in II Chr. 13. Abijah, king of Judah, was raised up to challenge Jeroboam because of his idolatry and gross ingratitude for all that God had blessed him with. Abijah declared that “God Himself is with us,” (II Chr. 13:13) and surely He was—for, after an initial ambush by Jeroboam’s troops, the army of Abijah regathered and re-advanced. When the day was over, 500,000 of Israel’s chosen men had fallen in battle. Jeroboam never recovered. He was under the heel of Abijah and Judah the rest of his days, until finally “the Lord struck him, and he died.” (II Chr. 13:20)

So, the end was piteous for this once-glamorous king of the newly formed federation of the northern half of the kingdom. Jeroboam’s enterprising was promising, but his expedience was dreadful; his encounter with God’s prophet was dramatic but disappointing; his evil was, to its core, godless; his end, juxtaposed against his bright beginning, was tragic and sad.

Learn from the lessons of the life of king Jeroboam. He had so much handed to him, but he allowed it all to slip through his fingers because of his jealous, distrustful, and disobedient heart.

The memory of the just is blessed: but the name of the wicked shall rot.” (Provs. 10:7)

One Single Life—Invested

A week ago, in God’s providences, our church, with some friends and family members, gathered to mark and memorialize the life of Vicki Murray, a lifelong member of Thompson Road Baptist Church in Indianapolis. Many who read this will not have known Vicki, but I think those of you who take the time to read this brief tribute may be blessed and inspired by it.

As retired pastor of TRBC, I still assist in funerals, usually with the eulogies, since older members of the church knew me, as did Vicki, as their pastor for forty years, and as their friend for even longer. Such was the case with Vicki’s family, her father and mother, Frank and Sandra.

The Murrays moved to Indianapolis when Vicki was just about a year old. They were from Big Stone Gap, Virginia; and when some of the coal mines in that area closed down, Frank and Sandra, with many others, moved to cities such as Indianapolis where they could find employment. Frank was hired by RCA and worked there until his retirement. He became a deacon at TRBC, and he and Sandy and Vicki all served their Lord through this local church until their eventual passing: Frank in 2013, Sandy in 2017, and Vicki the 23rd of this month, having just turned 68 years of age.

But, now, about Vicki. She attended Butler University here in the city, receiving both a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree, studying elementary education. She was hired by the Indianapolis Public Schools and worked, for most of her career, in School #34, with students in special education—same school, same job, pretty much the same room.

At church, she started out in our kindergarten Sunday School department working with my wife, but gradually moving up to our teen department, assisting one youth pastor after another as a youth worker/counsellor. She loved children and youth. She lived with her parents as a single adult and died, as some might say, an “old maid.” The three Murrays were a team for Christ, totally dedicated to Him through their local Church, always present, always active and involved.

As a person, she always had a warm smile and a positive word of greeting for all. I call it Vicki’s “signature smile.”

One of her best friends wrote, “What I remember about Vicki is her sweet caring ways and her love for the Lord. She was a soul winner.”

There was not a large crowd at her funeral service, so it was noticeable that in one or two pews, about four rows from the front, were maybe eight or nine ladies who were not known to our church family. We would learn that these women were retired teachers who at some time or other had worked with Vicki. Later that afternoon, following the funeral service, we saw this same group of ladies at a local restaurant seated at a large table, with an empty seat in the middle of the group. They requested of the hostess this empty seat for “Miss Vicki.”

Many tributes came in from people who learned of Vicki’s passing, some of which I want to share with you:

“Vicki helped me in so many ways as a new speech therapist at 34. She was the absolute kindest, most thoughtful person on this earth.”

“Vicki was the salt of the earth. She loved teaching and always put others first. Her love of young people was endless, and she performed nothing short of an angel who never gave up. We will long remember your loving of young children and your being willing to help and do anything to be of assistance.”

“I worked with Vicki when I was a special education coach in IPS. She truly loved her students. She was always positive.”

“I loved working with Vicki at School 34. No matter how she was feeling, she always had a smile and positive words. She was wonderful with all the students.”

And, from some of her fellow church members: “Such a kind, sweet spirit. She truly desired for everyone to know her Savior.” And, “Always a light when going to TRBC. One of the nicest people I got to meet.” Also, “I shall miss my dear friend. We spent many years together at church. She was a wonderful witness for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.” Finally, another wrote, “Vicki and I attended the same church for 48 years!”

And, Dr. Dennis Leatherman, longtime pastor of Mountain Lake Independent Baptist Church in Oakland, Maryland, who early in his ministry was youth pastor at our church, wrote: “ Shortly after my becoming youth pastor my wife and I were approached by Miss Vicki Murray about helping us in the youth program. I readily agreed, and Vicki became our piano player for Teen Sunday School and the midweek Teens Alive program. To say Vicki was a tremendous blessing would be a great understatement. Not only did she play the piano very well, she also helped with food, some counselling, and in various other ways. She had a great burden to reach the lost with the gospel, and was a constant source of encouragement to Kathy and me. Some words that come to mind when I think of Vicki: faithful (always in place), pleasant, kind, happy, encouraging, and I could go on and on. I am thankful that God brought Vicki and her parents into my life. Kathy and I will certainly miss her greatly.”

(Thank you Pastor Leatherman for that fitting tribute!)

Well, there you have it. A brief bio of one of the world’s little-known persons whose story will never make a book or movie, but whose life has touched for good countless thousands of people. Vicki has lived her life well, and her works will follow her.

One life, ‘twill soon be past; only what’s done for Christ will last.” Selah.

King Solomon—An Enigma (4th in a series of Kings and Priests)

The Irish writer George Bernard Shaw skeptically wrote, “Kings are not born, they are made by universal hallucination.”

That may be true of some of the kings known to mankind throughout the history of nations. Many have ruled despotically, and their kingdoms were corrupt. Too many have had the attitude of Napoleon Bonaparte, who said, “What is the throne—a bit of wood gilded and covered with velvet. I am the State. France has more need of me than I of France.”

But this study is not concerned primarily with secular kings. I am writing with reference to two kinds of kings: those whose reigns and records are part of biblical history, specifically, the kings of Israel. Secondly, I am writing about another class of kings whose rule is yet future. These kings are born into the royal family through the new birth. Their rule is yet future. We read of them in Rev. 5:10: “And hast made us unto our God kings and priests: and we shall reign on earth.”

The lives of the Old Testament kings of Israel—their strengths and weaknesses, their faith and failures—can afford us lessons on how to prepare for our future reign with Christ. We can learn what to do and what not to do—and gain wisdom, learning important lessons—by looking at their lives.

This article focuses on Solomon, son of David. Saul reigned first, then David, then Solomon, and after Solomon’s reign the kingdom was divided into a northern sector, commonly called Israel, and a southern sector, known as Judah—comprised of just two tribes, Judah and Benjamin.

Solomon is the classic enigma as a person and as a king. No king before or after, in Biblical or in non-Biblical history, was his equal. He enjoyed more power, more wealth, more wisdom—more of everything—than any person born into this race called “human.” We will look briefly at his blessings, his blemishes, and his blame:

Blessings

  • Solomon was blessed with immeasurable wealth. He was served by a host of subjects; he possessed a navy of ships; he enjoyed a worldwide reputation; he had a magnificent throne; his was a storehouse of gold and silver as well as other precious things. (I Kings 9:20,21; 26-28; 10:1ff.)
  • He was also blessed with wisdom unsurpassed before or after him. He prayed for wisdom, and God gave him a “wise and understanding heart, so that there was none like thee before thee, neither shall any arise like unto thee. And I have also given thee that which thou hast not asked, both riches, and honor, so that there shall not be any among the kings like unto thee all thy days.” (I Kings 3:12,13)

Blemishes (I Kings 11:1-8)

  • Solomon’s fundamental weakness was that he “loved many strange women.” The sins that he warned his son of (Proverbs 5 & 6) were the ones that he so lavishly embraced.
  • Solomon compounded his sin of “loving” many strange women by willfully bringing these women into his home, the palace, ignoring God’s warning that “they will turn away your heart after their gods.” (I Kings 11:2)
  • Solomon’s weakness and willfulness were followed by his wickedness in polygamy, taking 700 wives and 300 concubines, building for them a high place of abominable idolatry, so that it was plainly said, “Solomon did evil in the sight of the Lord.” (I Kings 11:6)
  • All of the above resulted in Solomon’s woefulness: “For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods; and his heart was not perfect with the Lord his God, as was the heart of David his father.” (I Kings 11:4)

Blame

  •  God indicted Solomon severely for what he had not done, that is, he had not kept God’s commands: “’And the Lord was angry with Solomon, because his heart was turned from the Lord God of Israel, which had appeared unto him twice, and had commanded him that he should not go after other gods; but he kept not that which the Lord commanded.” (I Kings 11:10)
  • God indicted Solomon, as well, for what he had done: “Wherefore the Lord said unto Solomon, forasmuch as this is done of thee…I will surely rend the kingdom from thee, and will give it to thy servant.” (I Kings 11:11)

Such is the sad saga of Solomon. “His morning sun rose beautifully; it sank in the evening clouded and dark.”

Of his wealth, world power, and wisdom, the visiting Queen of Sheba said: “It was a true report which I heard in mine own land of thine acts and wisdom; howbeit I believed not their words until I came, and mine eyes have seen it; and, behold, the one half of the greatness of thy wisdom was not told me.” (II Chr. 9:5,6)

In Ecclesiastes, Solomon catalogues his wealth, power, and pleasure as being limitless. Yet, his life ended dismally, with God pronouncing severe judgment upon his posterity. Five-hundred years later, Nehemiah remembers Solomon, not for his wisdom and righteous reign, but for his willful sin: “Did not Solomon king of Israel sin by these many things?” (Nehemiah 13:26)

Some takeaways from the study of Solomon’s sad saga: (1) A perfect environment, with every advantage known to man, is no guarantee that one will not fall into Satan’s trap; (2) Favor with God does not make one immune to succumbing to the weakness of the flesh, and yielding in disobedience to sin; (3) Sin comes with an astronomical price tag; (4) Wisdom (with knowledge) is no guaranteed shield against the fiery darts of the wicked one.

Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.” (I Pet. 5:8)

Russia, Cuba, China

For almost 250 years, Americans have enjoyed freedom: freedom of speech, worship, work, and the pursuit of happiness. These freedoms are guaranteed to America’s citizens in the US Constitution; and the three branches of government—executive, legislative and judicial—work together to certify that daily life in America can be pursued by its citizens without fear of oppression by those who rule over us.

Many, maybe most, of the world’s population, both past and present, have never enjoyed such privileges. Because of the inherent sin nature of mankind, warped and oppressive systems of government, foisted upon the masses and enforced by might, have too often ruled the day.

America has been an oasis of freedom. This is not to say that there are not those—some in high places—who have bought into the falsehoods known commonly as “socialism,” “communism,” and “totalitarianism,” who are working feverishly to replace free enterprise, capitalism, and a constitutional republic with their own devilish and despotic versions of “the good life.”

As part of my ministry while serving as “senior pastor,” I made several trips to various countries, either to visit missionaries that our church supported or to conduct limited evangelistic campaigns.

First, in 1989, it was my privilege to visit, with Natasha Vins conducting our itinerary, the Soviet Union—specifically Russia, beginning in Moscow, then to parts of what is now Ukraine, including Kiev,  Kharkov, and finally St. Petersburg, formerly Leningrad.  Natasha’s father, Georgi Vins, and many of her friends had spent years in Soviet concentration camps, simply for their faith in Jesus Christ and for their unwillingness to cease preaching the gospel.

The purpose of our trip was to visit churches whose members, and often pastors, had suffered severe persecution under the rule of communists. Dr. Ed Nelson, now with the Lord, was the other pastor on this trip, and he met often with these pastors, encouraging them in the faith. After that two- or three-week trip, Dr. Nelson initiated a project of getting Strong’s Concordance of the Bible translated into Russian, so that it could be distributed to as many pastors as possible in the now former Soviet Union. Shortly after that trip, the “iron curtain” came down, and visits to Russia and Ukraine by westerners became more common. I remember well, though, when we were visiting in 1989, the Russian believers often shared their belief with us that the “freedoms” they were then experiencing on a limited basis would not last indefinitely. And, today, those “freedoms” in Russia are non-existent.

So, since it is not uncommon to hear from some that what we need in our nation today is “more government controls and regulations,” I simply want to share a few things that I observed when visiting three of the countries that have been for decades under what is generally characterized as “communism.”

First, Russia. Early on in our visit, in Moscow, some Americans who had been living there, doing studies, invited us to visit a “supermarket” with them. It was an astonishing sight, more like visiting a food pantry here. There were not many shelves. Different items were in stacks on the floor. The warehouse-like facility was not very big; yet our hosts said this was the best, if not the largest, “supermarket” in Moscow.

After a couple of days there, it was not a stretch to observe that living in Moscow then, in the late 80s, would be like turning the page back to what it was like in America five decades earlier. It would not be a happy exchange. To say nothing of the freedom issues, life in Russia, under decades of communism, was not even comparable to life in a country that enjoyed freedom. One of our Russian hosts, who himself had been imprisoned in St. Petersburg for his faith, shared with us a “joke” that the Russian people passed around amongst themselves: “We pretend to work, and they (the government) pretend to pay us.” I asked a young adult in Kiev if he would like to come to America sometime. His answer: “Everyone in Russia would like to come to America.” So much for the benefits of living under communism.

The second country I want to speak briefly about is Cuba. In the late 1990s, my friend, Pastor Collins Glenn, now with the Lord, and I teamed up with an evangelistic team led by Evangelist Mike Crain, to visit the island that had  been controlled by the Castro communists for almost 50 years. We were blessed to visit some groups of believers who, though not operating with uninhibited freedoms, were tolerated by the Castro regime. These precious folk were rejoicing in their walk with Christ. They exuded in their singing the joy of the Lord. They spoke, when asked, of the limitations there; such as the rationing of food—maybe an egg a month if available—per family. No one drove any car that was manufactured later that the mid-fifties. A rural family had Pastor Glenn and me for a Sunday dinner. The house was pretty much a shack. The wife served us what appeared to be the scrawniest broiled chicken we had ever seen. It was hard to keep the tears back as, not wanting to be ungrateful, we ate a piece of that chicken, which was no doubt the best meal that family would look forward to for months to come. So, people who shout the praises of communism, where everyone is fed by the government, should visit Cuba and just take a look around. We did very much enjoy our time with the churches that we visited there, and I could never forget the worship services where people lifted their hearts up in unabashed praises to their great God and Savior, our Lord Jesus Christ.

Third, China. Ellen and I visited Beijing in 2016 with missionary Ron White. We could feel the oppression. Every time we left our motel room, there was a man standing in the hallway who, after a while, we assumed was keeping tabs on us. We lost any internet connection soon after checking into our room. But, we visited on Sunday a missionary who led a congregation of 100 believers, meeting in the second story of a high-rise apartment, occupying all the space of that second story. They met for worship in one bigger room, then had a meal together in another adjacent room. The members witnessed by passing out tracts on the street. They sang great hymns of the faith with exuberance, and told us that at one time they could not sing these songs out loud for fear of government oversight, so they “lipped” the words. It was a vibrant church; the missionary family provided a Christian school for the youngsters, much like a home-school here. Well, we were not surprised when we read, not too long after our visit there, that this missionary had been expelled from China.

So, I must conclude. Nothing in this post should be considered political. I write, though, as one who has observed the lives of believers in three different countries in widely differing parts of our world, which have lived and are living where the freedoms we enjoy, especially freedom to worship, are denied or severely restricted. Please do not be confused by anyone who says that what our country needs is more government regulation.

When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice: but when the wicked beareth rule, the people mourn.” (Provs. 29:2)

The Power of Your Witness

Just before Jesus ascended back into the heavens, forty days after His resurrection from the tomb, He instructed a handful of His disciples: “Ye shall receive power after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you, and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the world.” (Acts 1:8) We have not reached the uttermost part of the world yet; His commission is still in effect for all of His followers.

As a youngster, Robert Louis Stevenson, looked upon a dark street in Edinburgh and suddenly cried out, “I see something wonderful; I see a man coming up the street, and he is poking holes in the darkness!” It was, of course, the lamplighter who was lighting the gas lamps on the dark streets. What that lamplighter was doing with a lamp lighter, each believer ought to be doing with the gospel of Jesus Christ: poking holes in the darkness with the message of the Light of the world.

We are, Paul says, “ambassadors” for our Lord and Savior.” (II Cor. 5:20) There is a story told of an old preacher who walked up to a lady on the mezzanine floor of a hotel and said, “Lady, Lady! Are you saved?” The startled lady began to cry as he quoted a scripture verse and walked away. When her husband came and found her crying, he asked, “Dear, what is the matter with you?” “Oh,” she said, “a man walked up to me a few minutes ago and asked me if I were saved.” Her husband then said, “Why didn’t you tell him to mind his own business?” To which the shaken wife said, “Oh, but dear, if you had seen him, you would have thought he was minding his own business.”

“A college professor who was noted among his fellow-teachers for his habit of addressing young men upon their personal relations to Christ, was asked by one of his fellow professors, ‘Do they not resent your appeals as an impertinence?’ He replied, ‘No! Nothing is of such interest to any man as his own soul and its condition. He will never resent words of warning or comfort if they are prompted by genuine feeling. When I was a young man, I felt as you do. My wife’s cousin, a young fellow not yet of age, lived in our house for six months. My dread of meddling was such that I never asked him to be present at family worship, or spoke to him on the subject of religion. He fell into the company of a wild set, and was rapidly going to the bad. When I reasoned with him of Christ, he said, ‘Do you call yourself a Christian,’ assuming an astonishing look. ‘I hope so,’ I replied. ‘But you are not. If you were, He must be your best Friend. Yet I have lived in your home for six months, and you have never once named His name to me; no, He is nothing to you!’ I have never forgotten that rebuke.” (copied, Epworth Era)

I have a cousin who was reared in a home where the father was an alcoholic. Jimmy, as I called him when we were children, sadly, grew up to follow in the steps of his father. Jim had a bright mind but largely wasted it; and, due to his addiction, he lost at least one wife, as well as many good jobs in the publishing business. He finally did come to know Christ as his Lord and Savior, and his story has been broadcast on the Moody network in their series of programs called “Unshackled.”

“Before Jim’s conversion, and even some times after—as Jim was still struggling—my oldest sister often kept Jim in her home. Mary Ann and her husband, Tom, as they did for so many, even to some strangers, offered Jim kindness, hospitality, grace, and, of course, the gospel. When Jim, later in life, heard of the passing of my father, Jim’s uncle, he wrote the following (unedited):

“Thank you for letting me know about your Dad. I understand your supernatural sorrow, but thankfully I also understand the supernatural comfort that can only come from the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.

And while I know it cannot replace the sense of loss, his earthly legacy will not be forgotten soon. Your Dad is one of a very few people in this world that I don’t believe I have ever heard anyone speak unkindly about. His love of the Lord and his outlook on life made him a joy to be around. I tell the story often that while I was staying in your home 15 years ago, when he and your mother would come to visit, I would say, ‘How are you doing this morning, Uncle Ted?’ He would smile and reply, ‘Well, Jim, I woke up this morning, and I knew I was off to a good start.’ [Dad lived to be 94 years old.]

He was the first person to share the gospel with me, and while I was stiff-necked and impenitent for so many years, it was those seeds that eventually took root and produced fruit for the Lord. And I feel certain that if it were possible to compile a list of all the people who had been so influenced by your father in his lifetime, the Lord would have to tarry long before we would have time to finish reading it.”

Dad never taught a Sunday School class. Never sang in a choir. Never attended Bible college or a seminar on how to witness for Christ. A factory worker most of his life, he spoke few words. But he did let his light so shine before men, as Jesus encouraged all of us to do, that men glorified God because of his witness.

How are you doing, Mr. or Ms. Ambassador?

“Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ’s stead, be ye reconciled to God.” (2 Cor.5:20)

Only A Sinner, Saved by Grace!

(The following is a testimony of God’s saving grace shared by our nephew, Aaron Bridges, who now pastors in Western North Carolina. Aaron is the son of Ellen’s sister, June, and June’s husband, Ed):

“I am so thankful that God called me to preach the Word and allows me to serve in any capacity in His kingdom! If there’s anyone who was ever undeserving, it’s me.

This time 20 years ago, in 2004, I had just come out of an oxycontin overdose a few weeks prior and was in a secular rehab facility in Boca Raton, Florida. Doctors had told my parents I would be brain dead if I lived, and, at best, a vegetable due to my being without oxygen for so long. But, people around the country prayed for me and I eventually woke up and left the hospital after about a week. Unfortunately, I didn’t wake up from my spiritual blindness for quite some time.

My life was an absolute wreck. A few weeks after the overdose, I got my first DWI (yes, the first…not the last) after wrecking my car; and I was arrested for that charge, along with two drug-possession charges for marijuana and Xanax. Hence, the trip to rehab, which was truly just an attempt at lowering my charges when I went to court. The following two years of my life were an absolute disaster and train wreck, with a continual descent into alcoholism. In my mind, I reasoned that alcohol wouldn’t be as bad as drugs because it was ‘legal’ (more lies and deception).

However, God began working on me. My coworker and boss at the time, Scotty Briggs, invited me to church with him at Faith Christian Assembly of God in Wilkesboro, NC, on a Wednesday night in October of 2006. That night, Pastor Eric Jones preached out of the book of Ephesians, and the Lord was working on my soul the entire time. On the way out, Pastor Jones asked me how I was doing, and immediately I broke down into tears and told him I needed to be saved. My life changed instantly that night, and he prayed with me until I “prayed through” and was born again.

When I got home, I had to empty out my house and my cabinets (and closet too) of the things that had been a snare in my life for far too long. That’s what “works of repentance” means. God changed me that night, and although I’ve had times of failure since then, everything was different from that point on.

A few weeks later, God called me to preach in a revival service at that same church, and I surrendered to that call and stepped out in faith, leaving my job and my home in Wilkes County to go off to Holmes Bible College in Greenville, SC. Fast forward 17 years or so, and I couldn’t be more thankful for all that God has blessed me with. A beautiful and amazing wife, the opportunity to serve the best church in Western North Carolina (Cartoogechaye Church of God), a family that is loving and caring, a nice home in the hills of Macon County, and on and on.

It pays to serve God. His dividends are out of this world. Get serious about your relationship with God because He’s about to wrap this thing up, y’all. And never forget there’s a God in heaven that is merciful and patient with you. No matter how far away from Him you are right now, He’s only a prayer away!”

And I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who hath enabled me, for that he counted me faithful, putting me into the ministry. Who was before a blasphemer, and a persecutor, and injurious; but I obtained mercy, because I did it ignorantly. And the grace of our Lord was exceeding abundant with faith and love which is in Christ Jesus. This is a faithful saying, and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners of whom I am chief.” (I Tim. 1:12-15)

Note:  Aaron’s parents, June and Eddie Bridges, love God and have served him faithfully all of their married life. They had their family in church regularly, and their children attended Sunday School, VBS, and all the church activities. Aaron’s sister lives in South Carolina, and she and her husband have reared their children in church faithfully. In my opinion, Aaron’s grandpa, a faithful man of God and pastor, prayed Aaron to Calvary, and June and Eddie loved Aaron into the arms of Jesus—never giving up on him or the grace of God. Aaron’s grandpa—June and Ellen’s father—never lived to see his prayers answered, but Aaron’s Godly parents have watched the spiritual transformation from a front-row seat, as it were. Eddie is battling cancer at this time. Never give up. Never stop hoping and praying. God still hears and answers prayers, and He is still in the soul-saving business!

By the way, there is an excellent book by John Elmore that I have used in counseling and have found  very helpful: “Freedom Starts Today: Overcoming Struggles and Addictions One Day at a Time.”

Thank you, Pastor Aaron Bridges, for sharing your powerful story with “You and God” readers.

59 and Counting

Since yesterday marked the 59th anniversary of our wedding date, I would like to reflect a bit on the past six decades of our journey as husband and wife, and as a “team” in ministry. I hope you will indulge me the few minutes it will take you to read the following.

Ellen and I met as students at Bob Jones University, when I was a junior and she was a first-year student. Her major was accounting and I was in the BJU ministerial class. She was from North Carolina, having been reared in a pastor’s home; I was from Iowa and my father was employed by John Deere. I was called to preach while attending another college in Iowa, preparing, I thought, to eventually become a lawyer. Ellen enrolled in BJU, thinking she was heading for a business profession, with a resolve that marrying a preacher was not in her future plans. The Lord brought us together in the fall of 1963 when, assigned in the large Dixon-McKenzie BJU dining hall to spend three weeks at Table T-1, we met. I was not thinking of meeting a girl for the purpose of an ongoing relationship; nor was she thinking of meeting a young man at that particular time, to whom she would become engaged and married in August of 1965. But God…

I have said many times that it had to have been God’s leading in my life, for I surely was not smart enough—or wise enough—at that time in my maturing as a young adult to discern that Ellen would make the perfect wife for this pastor-in-the-making. God knew exactly what and whom each of us needed though, and I have never forgotten to thank Him for that “chance” table assignment that brought us together for a family-style meal three times a day for three (or maybe six, I can’t remember) weeks.

In the 1960s, the way couples communicated with each other at Bob Jones U. was the “note system.” At 10 p.m. each night, a “delivery” team would pick up mail written in the girls’ dorms and deliver it to the addresses in the guys’ dorms; and vice-versa. My first attempt at asking Ellen for a date was a note I wrote her through this note system, asking her for a date to one of the campus Thanksgiving Day activities. Sadly, she had already been “asked” for; so I “got in line” and kept trying until finally, for me, it was “pay-day!” The rest is history. We became engaged in the summer of 1964. I was working in an Indiana youth camp that summer, and the way people communicated long distance then in rural Indiana was on a “party-line” phone. There were always “clicks” heard down the line when you got a call from someone, so there was a “party” on the line—of who knows how many folk—listening in. Needless to say, we did not call each other that summer, but picked up our romance when school began again in the fall.

Our August wedding was held in Ellen’s home church, a beautiful, small chapel in North Wilkesboro, North Carolina. My family came down from Iowa; and one of my sisters, Mary Ann, and her children, coming to our wedding from Denver, were swept off the highway by one of those Nebraska summer storms, ejecting Mary Ann and her boys out of the VW bug in which they were traveling. The car was demolished, but a family friend, a pilot from Denver, came to the rescue, flying them all to Wilkes County, NC, in time for the Saturday evening wedding. It was a striking demonstration of the grace and goodness of God that a funeral did not have to be planned after the wedding.

We spent a couple of weeks on our honeymoon, visiting National and State parks, traveling in a small trailer that my parents loaned us, pulled by my Dad’s ’64 Impala as I recall.

In late August/early September, we pulled a 4×6 trailer jam-packed with all of our earthly goods, behind the ’64 VW Beetle that I owned, to Minneapolis, where I was enrolled in Central Baptist Theological Seminary. We did not know anyone there, did not have a place to live, did not have a job lined up; but we had each other, with hearts full of love and confidence through faith that God was leading us, and that He would provide for us. We spent one night in the attic of the Minnesota Baptist Convention house, thanks to the goodness of Dr. Arthur Allen. I went job hunting the next day and was hired at the Pako Corporation, the first stop on my list, where I worked for four years—until the day we left Minneapolis for Dallas, Texas, where I was accepted into a graduate program at Dallas Theological Seminary. We lived all our time in Minneapolis in a fully-furnished house that a widow who had just died left in an estate. Our “rent” was $50 a month, and the house was a block from the seminary. When we left the Twin Cities, we had two children, Sandra and Marti, and a thousand dollars in the bank, with all bills paid in full! Driving our U-Haul to Dallas, we were mindful that we knew only one family in Dallas, had no job lined up, and did not know where we would live when we got there. But God….

So, to wrap this up, after Dallas (’69-’71) we lived in Kansas for eight years, where I pastored two churches, then accepted the call to pastor Thompson Road Baptist Church in Indianapolis, where I would be privileged to serve as pastor for the next 40 years. We have been in the “retirement” mode for five years now, still attending TRBC and preaching and helping out at the Pleasant View Baptist Church in Noblesville, IN, a couple Sundays a month. I am serving as part of the Interim Pastor program of Gospel Fellowship Association, directed by Dr. Marshall Fant.

God has been so marvelously good to Ellen, myself, and our three children (yes, our boy, Theo, was born at Baylor U. Hospital in Dallas!) these past 59 years. We would not, if we could, rewrite the script in any way. There were, and still are, challenging times to be sure; but the grace and kindness of our great God has never been absent. I have had my own personal accountant-wife all of these years; and Ellen, never intending to marry a preacher, has had her own personal pastor for most all of these years. It’s been a fulfilling 59 years, and every day we face the “home stretch” with thanksgiving, joy, peace—and, always, expectation!

“Except the Lord build the house, they labor in vain that build it….” (Ps.127:1)

A Man After God’s Own Heart (“Kings and Priests—Then and Now” Series)

What would you think if I introduced you to a man of whom I said the following: “He has been married to at least eight women. He has several children, including one who is a murderer, one a rapist, one a seditionist, and one a womanizer. He has a history filled with tragedy. On one occasion he had an affair with a married neighbor, then tried to cover it up by having her husband killed when he learned that a child was due to be born as a result of their tryst.”

Sounds pretty sordid doesn’t it? What if I were to add: “This man is a man after God’s own heart!”

You’d probably think I had flipped! How absurd to think that a polygamist adulterer who had committed murder could ever be called a man after God’s own heart! Though most of us are not from Missouri, we’re maybe mule-headed enough that we’d have to see it to believe it on this one.

Well, here is a New Testament commentary on the life of the man I just described: “And when he had removed him, he raised up unto them David to be their king; to whom he gave testimony and said, ‘I have found David, the son of Jesse, a man after mine own heart, which shall fulfill my will.’” (Acts 13:22)

What Paul said in his sermon in a synagogue in Antioch of Pisidia was just a verse from I Samuel 13:14, when the prophet/judge Samuel said to Saul, in announcing that God would set Saul aside from being king because of his disobedience: “But now thy kingdom shall not continue: the Lord hath sought him a man after his own heart, and the Lord hath commanded him to be captain over his people because thou hast not kept that which the Lord commanded thee.”

Do not think, however, that David got a pass for all of his gross transgressions of the law. He paid an awful price as a husband, father, and leader/king, a price that was crushing to his heart and soul. But, God saw in David, flawed as he was, a man who had a heart for God—for many reasons, I think, including the following:

  1.  David was a man of courage:  “What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.” (Ps.56:3) He had squared off with the Devil face to face in the person of Goliath. But he would testify that “He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty…Thou shalt not be afraid of the terror by night, nor for the arrow that flieth by day, nor for the pestilence that walketh In darkness…A thousand shall fall at thy side and 10,000 at thy right hand…for He shall give His angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.” (Ps.91:1ff.)
  • David was a man of compliance to the Word of God. When God’s prophet rebuked the king for his sin, David’s immediate response was “I have sinned against the Lord.” (II Sam. 12:1,2) He would later testify, “I delight to do thy will, O my God,” and “I have chosen the way of truth,” and “I have refrained my feet from every evil way,” praying “Order my steps in Thy word.” (Ps.40:8; Ps.119:30; Ps.119:101; Ps.119:133)
  • David was a man of compassion. His worthy watchfulness over the surviving descendent of Jonathan, Mephibosheth, to fulfill a promise, put his compassionate heart on display. (2 Sam.9:1ff)
  • David was a man of contrition, as evidence by his broken heart, soul and spirit—seen in his anguish in Ps.51. He acknowledged that his sin was against God, v. 4; that he himself had a sin nature, v. 5; that he had grieved God’s Holy Spirit, v.11; and that his sin had caused his worship of God to be hindered, v. 19.

David was the second king over Israel. He was anything but perfect, and his administration was full of tragedies. In many respects, he failed God. But of him it was said, “He was a man after God’s own heart.”

If you are saved, you too are a “king.” (Rev.5:10) God calls you that. Yet, since your salvation, you too have failed God many times. Tragedy may have blotted your record and marred your testimony. Like David, though, it can be said of you: “There is a person after God’s own heart.”

Do you have courage in God’s power? Are your compliant to His Word? Do you have a compassionate heart? When confronted by God with your sin, are you contrite and penitent?

Blessed is the man unto whom the Lord imputeth not iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no guile…I acknowledged my sin unto thee, and mine iniquity have I not hid. I said, I will confess my transgressions unto the Lord; and thou forgavest the iniquity of my sin. Selah.” (David, Psalm 32:2,5)

A New Heaven and a New Earth

The last words of Revelation 20 are “…the lake of fire.” The first words of the next verse, Rev.21:1 are “…a new heaven and a new earth.” There could not be two places that are more extremely opposite than those two places. The lake of fire will be the eternal abode of the false prophet, the beast and the Devil, (Rev.19:20; 20:10) as well as all those who, when living upon this earth, did not accept Jesus Christ as their savior thus assuring that their names would not be found written in the book of life out of which the resurrected unbelieving dead of all ages will be judged by God at the Great White Throne judgment. (Rev.20:11-15)

An eternity in a “lake of fire burning with brimstone” is too awful to think about except in snatches of time; but that is not the subject of this blog, but rather, the eternal habitation of the saved, those who, when living on this earth, did place their faith in God by believing in His Son, Jesus Christ, and confessing Him as their Lord and Savior. Theirs will be “a new heaven and new earth” for eternity. Unlike the abode of the eternally damned, one can think about heaven and never exhaust the pleasure of what awaits the redeemed of all ages there.

In fact, C.S. Lewis, in Mere Christianity, said that the Christians who did the most for the present world were those who thought most of the next. He cites the apostles themselves, then the Reformers of the Middle Ages, followed by the English evangelicals who abolished the slave trade…all men and women who left their mark on earth, Lewis said, because their minds were occupied with heaven.

If you have read recent installments of “You and God,” you are probably aware that at least three dear friends and co-workers in our local church have gone on to be with the Lord in the past few weeks. They are not yet in that “new heaven and new earth,” but they are at Home where He is, and their final destination will be that place described in Revelation 21 and 22, a place that defies description with our limited vocabularies.

I read once of William Montague Dyke who became blind at the age of ten. Despite the handicap, he was very bright, witty and handsome. While attending graduate school in England he met the daughter of an English admiral with whom he fell in love and became engaged to be married. Though having never seen his fiancé, he loved her dearly. Just before the wedding, at the insistence of the bride’s father, William submitted to a special treatment for his eyes. Hoping against hope, William wanted the gauze from his eyes to be cut during the ceremony. He wanted the first thing he ever saw to be his wife’s face. As she came down the aisle during the wedding, William’s father started unwinding the gauze around from his head and eyes—still not knowing whether the operation was successful. With the unwrapping of the last bit of gauze, William looked into the face of his new bride for the first time. “You are more beautiful than I ever imagined,” he said. And so it is with those who die “in the Lord;” we shall behold Him who loved us so much that he was wounded and smitten in bearing our iniquities. Heaven will be indescribably beautiful—more than we ever could imagine—but, Oh, the face of our Savior who loved us and gave Himself for us; that will be what captivates us first, no doubt, in heaven!

In World War I the American 308th regiment was surrounded by enemy forces and under mortar and machine gun fire. Casualties were mounting, and the situation deteriorated when American forces began shelling the sector where the 308th had dug in. The only communication was by carrier pigeon. In a last desperate move, a sergeant released the regiment’s last bird with a note pleading for the Americans to hold their fire.

As soon as the pigeon lifted off, a stray bullet grazed the side of his head and tore his left eye out. Then a piece of shrapnel hit his chest, shattering his breastbone. But with a strong homing instinct, the bird struggled onward. Somewhere in flight another piece of shrapnel tore off his left leg, leaving the message cannister dangling from torn ligaments. The pigeon made it to his loft, however, and the order went out immediately to stop shelling. The 308th survived. When I read that story, I could not help but think of that “great cloud of witnesses” who have gone on before us; many who were battered, beaten and even beheaded, but all who having put their trust in Christ experienced a “safe landing” on heaven’s shores—in the arms of Jesus! (story copied, source unknown)

John W. Peterson, when he first started writing gospel melodies and lyrics, submitted a good many songs that were rejected by publishers. One such song was “Over the Sunset Mountain,” which went: “Over the sunset mountain, someday I’ll safely go; Into the arms of Jesus, He who has loved me so.” And the chorus goes, “Over the sunset mountain, Heaven awaits for me; over the sunset mountain, Jesus my Savior I’ll see.” An early publisher rejected this song with a note that read, “Take out the name Jesus and focus more on Heaven.” Of course Peterson reasoned that to take out the name Jesus would be unthinkable! A bit later another song came from his heart through his pen which was his response: “I have no song to sing, but that of Christ my King; to Him my praise I’ll bring forevermore! His love beyond degree, His death that ransomed me, now and eternally, I’ll sing it o’er!” Amen. There is no heaven without Jesus!

“And they shall see His face; and His name shall be in their foreheads.” (Rev.22:4)

Time to Teach

It’s always time for a teacher to teach, and once again mothers are watching and waving to their children as they jump into cars or onto busses and trek off to school to begin another year of studies; teachers awaiting the cars and busses to unload their precious cargo are saying, “Here they come; oh, help me, Dear God, to be a teacher that can teach and that can mold the lives of these dear students into trophies of Your grace for time and eternity.”

Teaching is an unspeakable privilege—at any level. To pour one’s self into the soil of another soul so that a character is shaped for a destiny is an opportunity that is of inestimable worth.

Listen to a world-renowned teacher speak admirably in memory of a teacher– who made an indelible mark upon his mind and heart– in memorializing Dr. Howard Hendricks, who for sixty years taught pastors-in-training at Dallas Theological Seminary: “To us he was a hero we looked up to, a model we watched and studied. While none of us would say he was flawless, all of us would say he was authentic, and, in addition to that, he was a lot of fun to spend time with…we learned his unique secrets on how to mine the soil of the scriptures, which enabled us to discover the golden nuggets and the silver strands of truth, and then to mint all of that into valuable coins of communication that we could spend on others for the rest of our lives in order to reach out to those who were hungry, and to win the souls of those who had lost their way. There simply aren’t many people on this planet like Howie Hendricks.” (Part of the memorial service for Howard Hendricks, delivered by Chuck Swindoll, Chancellor of Dallas Theological Seminary, March 2, 2013)

The legacy of this man who was mostly known simply as “Prof:” “For more than sixty years Prof served on the faculty of Dallas Theological Seminary, where he taught more than ten thousand students. He also ministered in person in more than eighty countries. Through speaking engagements, radio, tapes, films, the sixteen books he authored, his service on numerous boards, and his work as chaplain to the Dallas Cowboys, (1976-84), his reach was worldwide. Holding large audiences enthralled at venues…or…stadium rallies, Prof would confide, ‘It’s wonderful to be here with you, but I have a group of delicious students waiting for me back at the seminary.’”

Had anyone noticed Howard Hendricks as a youngster on the inner-city streets of Philadelphia where he grew up, it would probably have been unimaginable that “the kid” would grow up to be a teacher of teachers. Listen to how he got “hooked” in his own words: “Walt found me playing marbles on the street. That Sunday School teacher got involved with me and beat me in every game we played. I lost my marbles early in life: but when we were through, I wanted to follow him anywhere he went! He found eleven of us on the street. Nine of us are in full-time Christian service today. He never got past the sixth grade. I couldn’t tell you one thing he said. But I know this: he loved me!”

This Sunday School teacher who never made it past the sixth grade so touched the life of a child’s soul that the child would go on to become a teacher of ten thousand students most of whom would become pastors and teachers who would, in turn, touch the lives of untold numbers of souls, many of whom would become teachers of teachers. (This writer was privileged to sit under the teaching of Prof in the early 70’s at DTS, and I in turn for 50 years have tried to implement the principles he taught our class in the course “Advanced Methods of Teaching,” in teaching other teachers—I still have his class notes in my files!) And “the beat goes on!”

Speaking of teachers who have mentored and molded disciples to serve the Master Teacher, I know some who read this article could testify how the late Dr. Lee Roberson, founder of Tennessee Temple University and pastor of Highland Park Baptist Church in Chattanooga, Tennessee, when that church and college/seminary was one of the 20th century’s eminent strongholds for the propagation of the gospel, missionary ministries and the planting of Bible peaching churches–both at home and abroad–had a very simple outline that he shared with students and pastors who were desirous of learning what made this great teacher tick. He called them “7 Essentials for Building a Great_______.” (often the blank was filled in with the words “Sunday School,” but Dr. Roberson would also fill it in with “Church,” “Class,” or other endeavor for Christ. Here is his simple outline: 1. Faith in the Word of God; 2. A Burden for Souls; 3. Standards for teachers; 4. Weekly Teachers and Officers Meetings; 5. A Weekly Visitation Program; 6. A Consistent Teaching Program; 7. Goals!

I have just been thinking about schools starting up again, teachers sharpening up their teaching tools, and students whose lives will be touched for greatness, goodness and hopefully for God through the faithful ministry of the teacher. I suppose almost every person who is reading this is at some level a “teacher,” one who is, as Dr. Hendricks defined the teacher, consumed with the “art of teaching (which) is the art of getting excited about the right thing.” So, teachers, get excited about making the art of teaching your passion for His Kingdom’s sake!

And the things that thou hast learned of me among many witnesses, the same commit thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also.” (2 Tim.2:2)