“One of the best ways to emasculate our faith is to cut ourselves off from other Christians.” Those words are a commentary on the 20th/21st century churches of our Lord Jesus Christ. The Church that Jesus promised to build, begun on the Day of Pentecost as recorded Acts 2, was birthed in “doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.” (Acts 2:42) Most Bible-believing, New Testament churches today are careful to “cross their doctrinal ‘t’s’” and “dot their doctrinal ‘i’s,’” but with almost unlimited options for “things to do” before and after our worship gatherings, the fellowship that was so foundational in that mother church in Jerusalem is not so prominent in many of our churches today.
Oh, in the pattern and spirit of the early church, we still, when receiving believers into our church membership, extend the “right hand of fellowship.” That precedent was established when Paul and Barnabas were given the right hand of fellowship by James, Cephas and John. (Gal.2:9) It was and is a gesture indicating you, as a church, are identifying with the person(s) you are receiving into your communion. But, what do we do after this? To that early Jerusalem assembly, the extending of the right hand of fellowship was more than symbolic; it was an act of genuine love, demonstrating that the church and the persons being received would be bonded together as one from that day forward.
Most churches that are Bible-centers of preaching today are not deficient in the proclamation of doctrine. Paul’s words to Timothy have been taken seriously: “Till I come, give attention to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine.” (I Tim. 4:13) We have done that because we do not want to be guilty of being “…children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness….” (Eph. 4:14)
But what about fellowship? In Lev. 6:2 Moses listed the “sin of fellowship” as a transgression that the Israelites were committing against their neighbors. Are New Testament churches committing—in a different way—the “sin of fellowship” today?
Well, what exactly do we mean by “fellowship?” What is it? First, the question, “What is it NOT?” Fellowship must not be confused with “friendship.” There are people with whom we can be friends, but with whom we can have no Christian fellowship. Fellowship is not realized by being a member of the same community club or social group with others with whom we may enjoy camaraderie.
The word fellowship comes from a word that, in its original form, looks and sounds like our English word “Coin.” A coin, a common coin, is used in transactions involving common currency. Fellowship is sharing what we have and hold in common. Christian fellowship is sharing our common faith, beliefs, hope, convictions as followers of the Lord Jesus Christ. Thus, Christiann fellowship must be based upon sharing communion and oneness with those who are also members by grace through faith in the Body of Christ, His Church. This fellowship is first, “With the Father, and with His Son, Jesus Christ,” then “with one another.” (I John 1:3-7) It is a fellowship we were “called unto,” and a fellowship “in the gospel.” (I Cor. 1:19; Phil. 1:5) Paul warns, too, that there is no fellowship between righteousness and unrighteousness (believers and unbelievers), nor is there any possibility of fellowship with devils. (2 Cor.6:14,15; I Cor. 10:20) We cannot fellowship with “works of darkness.” (Eph. 5:11) To the contrary, Christian fellowship is that which is “in the Spirit,” between people who are “likeminded,” and “of one accord,” and who are people walking in “lowliness of mind.” (Phil.2:1-3)
We surely need continuous fellowship today, just as did our forbearers of faith. We need it because of the strength of the World, the Flesh and the Devil. Fellowship affords us the power of united prayer against these ancient foes, and it encourages us to keep on keeping on. (I Cor. 16:9) We can accomplish much more through fellowship—more in our efforts in world missions; more in Christian education endeavors; more in evangelism and soul-winning, and more in the building of His kingdom.
World renowned evangelist, Billy Graham, was once asked what his greatest satisfaction was in his ministry: was it meeting many presidents, kings, queens and dignitaries; or was it preaching to millions of people? He answered without hesitation: “It has been my fellowship with Jesus….that has been my greatest joy.” (From a devotional by Joe Stowell) There just is no substitute for this privileged communion! With the Father, with the Son, and with the people of God!
We can achieve fellowship today, as in the days of the infant church, by “bearing one another’s burdens.” (Gal. 6:2) We can do it by sharing the Word, sharing God’s blessings upon us; sharing testimonies of answered prayer; sharing material blessings; and, of course, by sharing our love as we share ourselves—our time, our treasures, our talents.
A lady once wrote these desperate words to her pastor’s wife: “I was so pleased to receive your card and the tapes. I felt so lost and alone. I honestly thought no one was lifting my name to the throne room. And, I was starving, so starved for God’s Word…Have you really prayed for me? I am also starved for fellowship with God’s saints.”
To all who read this post today: you can always, night or day, experience the blessing of pure fellowship—with the Father and with His Son. Jesus knocks at your door, saying, “If any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him and will sup with him, and he with me.” (Rev. 3:20) That is step one! Open your heart’s door to Him now; He will come in and “sup” with you—He will share with you what you have in common! Having done that, you will be ready to fellowship with other believers of like precious faith, members of His body.
“Jesus has a table spread, where the saints of God are fed; He invites His chosen people, ‘Come and dine.’ With His manna He doth feed, and supplies our every need; O ‘tis sweet to sup with Jesus all the time!”
“Come and dine,” the Master calleth, ‘Come and dine.’ You may feast at Jesus’ table all the time; He who fed the multitudes, turned the water into wine, to the hungry calleth now, ‘Come and dine.’” (Widmeyer; Bolton)
Fellowship…let’s not forget today the New Testament model of doctrine, fellowship, breaking of bread, and prayer!
“Praying us with much entreaty that we would receive the gift, and take upon us the fellowship of the ministering to the saints.” (2 Cor.8:4)