
Seven essential building blocks are listed in II Peter 1:5-7. Six of these we have already covered: virtue, knowledge, temperance, patience, godliness, and brotherly kindness. We come now to the seventh, charity.
Today, brotherly kindness and charity are often thought of as synonymous. Not so, though, in the Greek mind; and the fisherman-Apostle Peter wrote these words employing the Greek language of his day; thus, it will help to understand the nuances of these two words if we check out the differences as first written, as opposed to the English translation.
First, brotherly kindness is just one word, philadelphian, a word that refers to a kind of tender affection—something close friends enjoy in a soul-binding friendship, much like that of David and Jonathan’s loyal and deep affection for one another.
On the other hand, the word “charity” here, which is transliterated as agapao, refers to a selfless, sacrificial love of the highest degree. This word is used often by Jesus in the gospel of John, as in John 3:16, where the Son said of the Father that He “so loved (agapao) the world that He gave His only begotten Son.”
To our faith, then, we must apply all diligence to add this love that only flows from the heart of Him who is love, for “God is love.” (I John 4:8)
Now, I must at this point admit that I “blew it” when, in an earlier installment of “You and God” in this series, I said that temperance was the only building block in this list of “add-ons” in II Peter 1 that was also mentioned in Paul’s listing of the fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22,23. It is not! Love, translated “charity” in II Pet.1:7, is the same as the first fruit that Paul mentions in his list in Galatians, which begins with love, joy, peace, etc. I missed it as I focused on the word “charity” in the II Peter list. My bad! It does prove this: Any speaker, writer, or teacher who speaks often or writes much will have to make a retraction sooner or later. I have taught this passage and preached from it many times, yet I flubbed this one. Thanks for your “kindness.”
Thus, as with temperance, so with charity: We can only add these traits by surrendering to the Holy Spirit. There is NOTHING within us that can produce love, which can only come from the heart of God. Brotherly kindness is different. We can work at that, and if our heart is right with God, by our words and deeds we can treat others with a friendship that can only be described as “kindness.”
Now, if we have agapao love within our hearts, it will be evident that we will (1) Love God, (2) Love our neighbor, and (3) Love our enemies.
(1) Love God. God is love, and if He is in us then—and only then—can we love God. (I John 4:16) One wise person said, “On the whole, God’s love for us is a much safer subject to talk about than our love for Him.” John put it this way: “We love Him because He first loved us.” (I John 4:19)
In John 21, there is an interesting post-resurrection appearance of Jesus with some of His disciples as they had enjoyed breakfast together. Three times, Jesus bluntly asked Peter, “Do you love me?” The first two times, Jesus employed the word “agapao.” Do you love with a love in your heart like God the Father’s love? Selfless. Self-sacrificing. Genuine. Absolute love. Each time, Peter said in response, “I phileo you” (i.e., have tender affection, friendship for you). Having denied Jesus three times when His Lord stood before Pilate—just after having affirmed that he would never deny Jesus but would, if necessary, die for Him—Peter now would not let himself say, “I love (agapao) You, Lord.” Jesus again posed the question, “Do you love Me?” But this third time, Jesus used the word “phileo.” And for the third time, Peter replied, “I love (phileo) You.” A play on words, to be sure, but a keen insight into both the Savior’s heart for His Apostle and the Apostle’s heart for his Savior. Jesus got into the depths of Peter’s soul, and accepted his confession that at that particular moment—what with the recent history of denial fresh in Peter’s mind—he was unable to use the word “agapao,” the highest and deepest God-like love, in telling how he felt for Jesus. Jesus accepted that, and in turn commissioned Peter to feed His sheep. Peter would do that, as we learned in Acts. And now, in his epistles, he bids his brethren to add to their faith “agapao” love.
(2) Love our neighbor. Jesus told His followers of the good Samaritan, a story which underscored the truth that our neighbor is anyone who is near us and in need. (Luke 10:29-37) James 2:8: “If ye fulfill the royal law according to the scripture, thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself, ye do well.”
(3) Love our enemies. In His extended sermon in Matthew 5:43,44, Jesus said that we should not only love our neighbor, but that we should also love our enemies and even “bless them that curse you.” This kind of treatment of those who despitefully use us can only be the result of God’s love coming from us to others.
So, add to your faith LOVE. The Christian life has faith as its foundation and love as its crown of glory. We are to add love—the love of God, love of neighbors and love of our enemies. Believers who have added to their faith these qualities will neither be spiritually barren nor blind. (II Peter 1:8,9)
“For if these things be in you, and abound, they make you that ye shall be neither barren, nor unfruitful…but he that lacketh these things is blind, and cannot see afar off, and hath forgotten that he was purged from his old sins.” (2 Pet.1:8,9)








