A Brother In Need

This is a real-life, real-time story of the brother or sister who has a need (James 2:15)—and to whom someone who reads these blog posts might be able to lend a helping hand.

Marian Sebastian came to the United States in 1996 from his homeland in Sri Lanka, on the promise of finding work through which he would be able to earn money to send back to his family for their daily sustenance. As is so often the case, the promises were not authentic. They were made by unscrupulous people who planned to take advantage of him. In his own words, Marian says, “I came to America to earn money to buy a house for my family, my children’s education and their future; also to help my father, my brothers and sisters.” After a brief time in Florida, where he was supposed to get a job on a cruise ship, he ended up in Indiana, working in a restaurant for a calloused taskmaster—doing the work of two or three people, 13-15 hours a day, seven days a week.

Understandably, after months of this physical, emotional, and mental daily grind, Marian became very discouraged. “I lost hope. Day by day, my workload increased, and I became more and more depressed due to my feelings of loneliness. I told two other people about my situation, but they did not seem to care about me [and] there was also a language barrier. Finally, I concluded that I was unworthy to live any longer. I missed my wife, children, and country terribly. My body was at the point of exhaustion, and I was falling into deep depression. I resolved to end my life by drinking poison.” That was in September 1998.

Marian ended up in Methodist Hospital for 45 days. A social worker took him to Good News Mission on Indy’s east side, where he has resided ever since: “I lost my esophagus. I now need to be fed through a feeding tube. I still experience a great deal of pain and suffer frequent bouts of depression.”

At the Good News Mission, Marian began attending the evening chapel sessions, hearing the Word of God preached every night by different preachers. In a short time, he threw himself on the mercies of God and trusted in Jesus as his Lord and Savior, following Him in baptism shortly thereafter. He began reading God’s Word voraciously and enrolled in a local Bible college, which he attended for four years. Following his studies in college, Marian attended Indy Reads for several years, studying English. Now he is able to read, speak, and write English fluently. He feels that God has given him a second chance.

Marian has had multiple surgeries to repair his esophagus, but to no avail. He was taken to Mayo Clinic in 2021 for an examination but was unable to receive help there.

While at the mission, Marian has worked as a cook. He joined Thompson Road Baptist Church in 2012 and attends faithfully, participating in prayer meetings as he has opportunity. He prays earnestly, beseeching God’s throne of mercy. When one listens to Marian praying, one feels that he knows how to get in touch with his Heavenly father. His prayers are heartfelt and spiritually moving.

Again, in his words: “I have a confidence with Christ and His cross. The Lord said, ‘Take the cross and daily follow Me.’ (Luke 9:23,34) I have a powerful testimony in my life. The Lord Jesus Christ gave me a second chance of life. Many things the Lord has done for me and my family (for which) I praise the Lord. (Luke 19:10) He is the true and righteous God. The gospel message touched deeply in my heart. Today I am happy because of Christ. I believe one day the Lord Jesus will send me to my country to be united with my family. Amen.”

Marian has a wife and three children. He has received a Sri Lankan passport, is working on a T-Visa, has a legal ID card, and his desire is to have his wife come to the States to visit him. Because he cannot receive the medical help in Sri Lanka that is necessary for him to survive, he cannot visit his home country at this time (though he still holds out hope that he one day will be able to).

I was Marian’s pastor for several years and am still privileged to attend church with him at Thompson Road Baptist Church every Sunday and Wednesday. His love for Christ is genuine, and his testimony I can attest to. He has been accepted and loved and helped by our church family. The Good News Ministries of Indianapolis has been compassionate, generous, loving, and kind to Marian since the day he landed there from Methodist Hospital in 1998. They have provided comfortable housing, transportation, meals, clothing, and much medical assistance. As a pastor, close to Marian, I cannot say enough good about Dan Evans, Director of Good News Ministries, and the GNM staff for their loving kindness to our friend and brother in Christ, Marian Sebastian. They have been the Lord’s lifeline to this once destitute brother for more than a quarter of a century! Asking nothing in return.

How can you help Marian? Well, if there is an employer in greater Indianapolis that could provide a job for 15-20 hours a week, that is what he is praying for. He is limited physically in what he can do, but he still wants to earn some money to send home to his family in Sri Lanka. And, Marian covets your prayers for his family and for God’s continued guiding hand upon his life. If you can be of any help with employment for this brother, just reply to this blog. Or, if you would prefer, you can email Marian directly at sebastianmarian717@gmail.com.

And, pray for Good News Ministries in their amazing haven for the hopeless here in our city. Support it with your prayers and with your giving as God enables you to do so. They are an oasis of grace in this great metropolis.

Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Gal. 6:2)

Be Angry and Sin Not (Eph.4:26)

Anger unchecked boils over into acts that reveal the worst side of a person. The elder son of earth’s first marriage, Cain, was the first person in history eaten up with anger. (Gen. 4:5) He had disobeyed God and brought to His creator a sacrifice of his own concoction—rather than one that would answer to God’s commands. As a result, God did not accept Cain’s offering; whereas, righteous Abel obeyed God, brought the sacrifice that God had ordained, and it was accepted. Anger is an upheaval of the spirit that has slain many people since Cain, who in anger murdered his brother, becoming “wroth” with God not long after his parents were banished from the grand Garden of Eden due to their disobedience to God’s stated command. Anger is still one of mankind’s most active antagonists. It will be until time shall be no more.

Solomon wisely said that “He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.” (Provs. 16:32) Alexander the Great, Greek general and world conqueror, learned this in a most agonizing way. The young Alexander was a gifted leader, “energetic, versatile and intelligent.” He was usually quite level-headed, but at times he let his anger control him, to his woeful remorse. One of Alexander’s closest friends, Cletus, on one occasion became drunk, and in his drunkenness began to make fun of the Emperor in front of his men. Blinded by anger, Alexander quickly grasped a spear from a soldier’s hand and hurled it at his drunken friend, with the intent of frightening the general; but, Alexander’s aim was deft, and the spear hit its mark with deadly force, killing the Emperor’s childhood friend. Alexander was never the same, sinking into deep remorse and even attempting to take his own life. For days he lay sick, crying out for Cletus, cursing, and calling himself a murderer. Alexander the Great conquered the world before he was 34 years of age but he never was able to conquer himself—another victim to the sin of anger.

  • The Sin of Anger: Anger is often birthed in rebellion. Man’s spirit stiffens itself against a person, a restriction, a perceived injustice, a jealous spirit, envy, revenge, and a multitude of other avenues that the fallen nature of man is quick to make available. The sin of anger is birthed in rebellion, ultimately, to the rule of God; it is also nurtured in pride and self-centeredness. Lucifer—son of the morning angel before being lifted up in pride and becoming the Devil—was angry that He was not on the throne of God, and in every deed the Devil has ever done there are the sister seeds of pride and anger.
  • The Signs of Anger: A fallen countenance (Gen. 4:5,6); irritableness; impatience, tense voice; glaring stare; hurtful epitaphs, words designed to hurt, explosive threats and actions, silence, clenched teeth, heavy breathing, violent behavior. Almost daily, in most major cities and even small cities, the awful end result of anger is reported on the news: murder.
  •  The Severe Consequences of Anger. Often, people overcome by anger become, as did Cain, fugitives. Cain lost his fellowship with God and, as a result, was made a fugitive and vagabond. (Gen. 4:14) In anguish, Cain remonstrated, “Behold, thou hast driven me out this day from the face of the earth; and from Thy face shall I be hid; and I shall be a fugitive and vagabond in the earth….” (Gen. 4:14) Not only was living as a fugitive one of the severe consequences of anger, but Cain also became a slave to fear: “Everyone that findeth me shall slay me.” Under the law, by God’s grace, people who were unintentional manslayers were able to take refuge in one of several “cities of refuge” provided at God’s instructions. Nothing is worse than living one’s life as a fugitive, immersed day and night in fear. Sin’s consequences are severe and unrelenting.
  • The Sad End of Anger: One person said well that “as long as anger lives, she continues to be the fruitful mother of many unhappy children.” A “resident” some years back in a wildlife park in the state of Victoria, in Australia, became something of a tourist attraction. It seems that a crocodile chewed the pipes in his tank and ate the filter, resulting in his normally green skin turning a bright orange. It is said that the change of color did nothing to improve his temper. His name was Snappy, and his keepers testified that the croc lived up to its name. That happens (with more tragic ends) with God’s creatures, who were created in his image—an image that was darkened by the fall of mankind into sin when our first parents disobeyed God’s command to not eat of the tree in the midst of the garden. So, Cain was overcome by anger: so was Saul, so were Esau and many others whose lives are a testament, in scripture, to the awful fruit of anger. Here is a short list of some other “fruits” of this sin: division, death, divorce, damnation, deceit, disfavor, destruction. That is why we read in the Proverbs: “Make no friendship with an angry man and with a furious man thou shalt not go; lest thou learn his ways.” (Provs. 22:24,25)
  • The Solution for Anger: (1) Do right; (2) Find acceptance (with God and man); (3) Obey God and receive His goodness. “And the Lord said unto Cain, Why art thou wroth? And why is thy countenance fallen? If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door.”  (Gen. 4:6,7)

    Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the son go down upon thy wrath.” (Eph. 4:26) “Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.” (Eccl. 7:9)

    A Diamond Anniversary

    On this date, 60 years ago, I grasped the hands of “the most beautiful girl on the face of God’s earth” and vowed to love her “till death do us part.” I never would have thought that, 60 years later, we would be alive to celebrate our “Diamond Anniversary.” But, to the praise of God and with grateful hearts, we do humbly bow before our Savior, thanking Him for His kindness to us these past six decades.

    I want to share with you a poem that I wrote a few years ago—not on an anniversary, but since I have never published this one, I thought our 60th was the time to let it see the light of day:

    “My dearest Ellen, on this day, I want to come to you to say ‘My love for you will falter never, I’ll love you always, dearest, ever’!

    It was a day so long ago, to my delight I got to know, a girl named Ellen from Wilkes County, a girl that brought to my life Bounty.

    You’ve proven sweet, true, kind and dear. I’ll always want you ever near; your beauty takes away my breath,

    I’ll love you always unto death.

    Our hearts were knit and we are one, ‘til our life’s journeys here are done. It’s been a joyous trip in life;

    With you beside me as my wife.

    God blessed us with our children three; they made our hearts beat fast with glee; we’ve seen them grow before our eyes, to give us grandkids as a prize.

    We have a home, a place of love, blessed with God’s favor from above. We’re blessed in riches that abide, in God’s great grace we take our pride.

    We’ve loved and laughed and even lost; at times, we’ve had to pay great cost. It’s part of life to face stark death, but God’s pure love gave baby’s breath.

    So, Ellen dearest, this I write, to praise you for your life and light. You’ve been a beacon true and clear—To all who’ve known you far and near.

    I pray your days left here below, will gladness, pleasure, blessings know; I’ll love you ‘till I cannot breathe,

    And only then from your side leave.

    I thank you dearest, my sweet love; and I do thank my God above, that He brought Ellen to my side, so that we could here abide.”

    Marriage: “Two volumes bound in one complete, with thrilling story, old but sweet: No title needs the cover fair, two golden hearts are blended there.”

    And said, ‘For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh. Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.’” (Matt. 19:5,6)

    Pastor Stertzbach’s Story

    The “You and God” blog of August 7 was entitled “My Heroes,” featuring a couple of men who impacted my life through their consistently faithful ministries. One of those was my father-in-law, Marvin Beshears, who pastored in North Wilkesboro, NC, for fifty years, and, who, though he had no opportunity to receive a “formal” education, knew the power of God upon his life in an extraordinary way—so much so that he “commanded” the respect of all who knew him or knew of him as being a real-life “man of God.” Upon reading this post, a pastor friend of mine, Dave Stertzbach, wrote to me sharing his experience as a young man in training for the ministry when he met such a man as Bro. Marvin. I want to pass this letter along, with Bro. Dave’s permission, believing that it will be a blessing to you as it was to me, with the thought that a ministry for Christ that will touch hearts has more to do with “Who you are” than” What you have.” Thank you, pastor Stertzbach, for sharing.

    This hero’s article was particularly delightful to my soul. Thank you so much. I cherish it because of your love for Dr. Parker and your beloved father-in-law. It reminds me of one such hero of the faith that I met in the hills of Tennessee when I was a seminarian. It had a lifetime impact upon me.

    Diane and I were newlyweds. She was finishing her senior year at BJU and, as a married student, I was doing my first year of seminary at BJU and working an almost full-time job. Diane wanted to go to Sparta, Tennessee, to see her great aunt, Lois Hutson, who lived in Happy Valley.  Upon arriving there, Aunt Lois had cold sweet tea waiting for us and a warm welcome to her favorite great-niece.  It was my first acquaintance with Diane’s cherished aunt, and she readily accepted me into the family, for which I was especially grateful!

    Aunt Lois announced that she was going to church that night at her Southern Baptist church up on the mountain.  Bro. Pate Ford was the itinerant preacher who was speaking that night. She offered to take us along, which we readily agreed to do. I had graduated from BJU with a B.A. in Bible and was now studying to get my master’s degree.  I was pretty impressed with myself in those days and thought I knew a lot about the Bible, but that night was going to change me forever.

    I briefly met the preacher before the service and Aunt Lois introduced me as, “This is my great-niece and her husband, David. He is in seminary at that Bob Jones University in Greenville.” I noticed that Bro. Ford was very cordial to this upstart young seminarian. And I viewed him as “just a country preacher” because of his simple vocabulary, his plain, out-of-style dress, and his soft-spoken demeanor.  Then … he mounted the pulpit to preach, and everything in my mind and heart changed!  He delivered a soul-stirring message from the Hand of God that was anointed by the Holy Spirit in a way I had rarely ever seen. His speech was plain and without the accoutrements of big theological terminology. His illustrations were folksy and heart-touching.  And his exposition of the Scriptures was illuminating to the mind, heart, and soul. That night, I heard a true man of God preach the Word.  He was a country preacher, but my respect for him was transformational indeed.

    After the service, I was eager to shake hands with this new acquaintance. As I now warmly greeted him, I was anxious to know more about him, because he was obviously filled with the fresh oil of God. Since academia was so important to me in those days, I asked where he went to school.  He already knew where I was, but this humble man of God lowered his head and said, “Bro. David, I only went to Caney Forks Preacher’s School for six weeks. I learnt the rest by just studying the Bible & letting God teach me everything else. I ain’t never really been to a college or anything.”

    It was obvious that I was standing in the shadow of man who was taught by God, which was evident by the powerful preaching I had just heard. I was so ashamed of my pride and judgmental attitude that I went home and got on my knees, repenting of my pride and surrendering to God to be taught of Him like my new hero in the faith.

    I never saw or talked to him again, yet he had a great impact upon me for the rest of my life. And I wanted to emulate his humble obedience to be a servant of the Lord. I went on to be pastor for 48 years, but after that day I took on a new moniker. I was thereafter “the Country Parson,” with a desire to only please the Lord, serve Him and His people, and to glorify the Lord like Bro. Pate Ford.

    So, my brother Slutz, you had your father-in-law, and I had Bro. Pate.  Praise the Lord for the spiritual influencers that God sent our ways and used in such life-altering ways, in both of our lives!  We are rich men indeed for such treasured servants in our past!

    Ye are our epistle, written in our hearts, known and read of all men…not with ink, but with the Spirit of the living God….” (2 Cor.3:2,3)

    Note: Pastor Stertzbach (david.stertzbach@gmail.com) is retired from senior pastoring and is now affiliated with the Interim Pastors Ministry of Gospel Fellowship Association, Greenville, SC, Dr. Marsh Fant, Director. (mfant@gfamissions.org)

    My Heroes

    I have heard two preachers lately make references to their heroes. One hero was a Bible character, and one a contemporary person whose life and labors were deemed so extraordinary that his admirer labeled him a hero. The dictionary defines a hero as “a person who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities.” There are a number of biblical persons who might qualify as heroes by that definition. And there is surely nothing wrong with having men and women, forefathers or living, whom we respect and admire so deeply that they are, in our thinking, heroes. Nothing wrong, that is, unless we deify these people, forgetting that they are men and women who also have “feet of clay.” We ought, therefore, to remind ourselves of the biblical injunctions that we “have no confidence in the flesh” (Phil. 3:3) and that “an arm of flesh” is no guarantee of victory. (II Chr. 32:8)               

    But since hearing the aforementioned pastors refer to their heroes, my mind was challenged to think of some of my heroes. Many come to mind, but here are two. Each impacted my life for good in the time that I knew him.

    First, Dr. Monroe Parker—preacher par excellence, educator, and missionary statesman in the 20th century. Dr. Parker was a staff minister and administrator at Bob Jones University, graduating in the first class of that school, which was founded so that young people could get a sound education without having their faith shattered by liberals who were bent on espousing Darwinism, so-called “higher criticism,” and other ideologies that have no basis in truth.

    Dr. Parker was, for several years, president of Pillsbury Baptist Bible College and also a founding officer of Baptist World Mission, of which he was General Director when I joined that mission board in 1982. I had the privilege of getting to observe this southern gentleman up close and in person over many years; he and his wife were guests in our home—sometimes overnight guests—as they crisscrossed America in meetings.

    Those of you who knew “the Monk” will affirm that Monroe Parker had a sense of humor that was, well, a sense of humor. His stories were endless, and his “punch lines” were never disappointing. He could make you laugh, and he could make you cry; his love and burden for lost souls was never absent in personal conversation or in his public ministry. Nothing about him was “affected”—he was transparent, discreet, and always in word and deed clothed in humility. When he was president of Pillsbury Baptist Bible College, the students there were singularly impacted by his chapel messages and his personal interest in them and in their ministry; scores of these young men under his tutelage went on to pastor some of our nation’s great Bible-preaching churches.

    When I pastored my first church in Kansas and knew Dr. Parker only from a distance, I got tapes of his messages—the old reel-to-reel tapes—and played them to my folk in the evening training hour before the main service. Of course, the favorite was his “elevator trip to Hell” sermon. Later, I was blessed to have Dr. Parker speak at Thompson Road Baptist Church when I became pastor here in Indianapolis, and he was the first guest evangelist that I invited after I assumed the pastorate in 1979. Ellen and I, and our church family, will always cherish memories of Dr. and Mrs. Parker. They were, as it has been said, “the real deal!” He is one of my heroes.

    The second hero that I would like to remember here is my father-in-law, Marvin Beshears. By the way, I have written previous posts on each of these men individually—“The Monk” and “God’s Man From Heaven Sent.”

    I knew both men pretty well; and, although they were alive at the same time, they were worlds apart in most respects. But they shared an unwavering respect for God’s Word, an unabated love for souls, and a steadfast commitment to “preach the Word…instant, in season, out of season…reproving, rebuking, with all long-suffering and doctrine.” Ellen’s father was known all over Wilkes County, North Carolina, simply as “Brother Marvin.” He did not meet Christ as Savior until, during World War II, he failed a physical and was not accepted into active military service. So he went to Virginia to paint U.S. Navy ships that were sent across the oceans in military service. It was in these shipyards that Marvin heard the voice of Pastor Charles E. Fuller, preaching to packed congregations in Long Beach, California—filled with soldiers about ready to ship out to the war effort—pleading with these young men to accept Christ as their Savior. Marvin was not being shipped overseas, but God got ahold of his heart through the “Old Fashioned Revival Hour” preaching, and when he finally returned to his family in North Wilkesboro, NC, he was a new creation in Christ. He attended several of the many local Baptist churches looking for a place to grow in Christ, but in most all of them he noted men on the front porch smoking cigarettes. Sometimes these were deacons and even pastors. He just could not get past this, for when he got saved, he knew that such habits had to go.

    Marvin got most of his education on his knees, with the book he revered, the Bible, opened before him. He was not able, in the difficult Depression years, to finish high school. He was working to help provide food and essentials for the family of nine children. He could not read with ease, mispronounced quite a few of King Jame’s English words, and spoke with a vocabulary unique to him. But anyone who ever heard him preach, or pray, could never forget the apparent “unction” of the Holy Spirit that was upon him! I was a ministerial student in Bible college when I became acquainted with Ellen’s father; but, in truth, I wasn’t even worthy to sit in the same classroom with this man of God.

    He preached on the radio every Sunday morning, preached in prisons, preached in nursing homes all over Wilkes County. Mention his name and everyone knew “Brother Marvin.” He never had to sign a bank note—a handshake would seal any contract with this preacher, who lived what he preached until the day he died. I graduated from college and seminary with degrees, but my hero, Marvin Beshears, had the hand of God upon him in a way that I have never known. He was a mountain preacher—by the world’s standards, uneducated—but in truth he stood head and shoulders above most who were called “Reverend.” He was, by the way, also an astute businessman. He pastored the same church for 50 years and never received a salary or any benefits—but provided, with the help of a devoted wife, a living for his family, the benefits of which his children are still reaping. Yes, my hero, Dad Beshears.

    I am out of space for now; maybe I will write about two more heroes next time. Stay tuned.

    And when the Chief Shepherd shall appear, ye shall receive a crown of glory that fadeth not away.” (I Pet.5:4)

    “It Is The Last Time” (I John 2:18)

    Those were the words of the aged apostle John when writing to his “little children” in the faith—the last of his epistles, penned when he was in his 90s! He was no doubt aware of what Paul had written to Timothy twenty-five years earlier, shortly before his martyrdom, when he said in that second epistle to his young protégé, “Know this also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.” (II Tim.3:1) John also had a vivid memory, no doubt, of that time on the Mt. of OIives when Jesus, heading for the hill, Mt. Calvary, to be crucified a few days hence, responded to the disciple’s query, “What shall be the sign of thy coming, and of the end of the world?” (Matt. 24:3) In Matthew 24 and 25 Jesus gave a lengthy answer to those questions, climaxing in Matthew 25:31ff. with a statement concerning His age-ending second coming, in power and in great glory.

    There always has been—and there is at this present hour—an interest in the cataclysmic climax of history, the world, and time as we know it. There is—even on the part of unbelieving peoples—an apocalyptic awareness that time can hardly continue as it has, with all the world powers having “red buttons” at their fingertips and at each-others’ throats daily. And, the “birth-pangs”—beginning of sorrows—signs that Jesus gave to the apostles’ questions about the end of the age/world have only intensified the past couple of millennia: with a multiplicity of antichrists; wars and rumors of wars; nations rising against nations; famines; and earthquakes in divers places. Doomsdayers have the small hand on the clock at midnight and the “minute hand” a few minutes before midnight.

    With all of this in mind, here is a brief overview of what the Bible says about “things to come”:

    • The Rapture (catching up) of the Church is next on the timeline of history that is yet future. Believers who are “in Christ”—members of His Body, the Church—will be resurrected and caught up to meet Christ “in the air,” while believers who are living at the time of His return will also be caught up (“raptured”) to and with them to enjoy, following the Judgment Seat of Christ, the marriage supper of the Lamb. (I Thess. 4:13-18; II Cor. 5:10; I Cor. 3:13-15; Rev. 19:7-10)
    • The Seven-year Tribulation. Daniel’s 70th week, during which three waves of seven divine judgments will be poured out upon the earth and its inhabitants, the last three and one-half years of which the Antichrist (Beast) and False Prophet, with Satan, will deceive the world with wonders, convincing millions to receive the “mark” of the Beast, conforming to the one-world religio-politico empire. (Daniel 9:24-27) The last of the 21 rapid-fire judgments will be marked by 100 pound hail-stones falling from heaven, resulting in the earth’s inhabitants blaspheming and cursing God. (Rev. 16:21)
    • The Second Coming of Christ will occur as Satan, the Beast, and False Prophet come together to make war with the Lamb in Megiddo, waging what is known as the battle of Armageddon. Commercial-religio Babylon will fall to destruction and Jesus Christ, riding on a white horse, with a sharp sword out of His mouth, will smite all the nations gathered against Him, and He will be established as KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS. (Rev. 19:11-16). The False Prophet and Beast will be cast into the Lake of Fire, and Satan will be bound and cast into a bottomless pit, where he will remain for a thousand years.
    • The Millennium. This 1,000-year period, during which Christ will reign on David’s throne in Jerusalem, capitol of the renovated, Edenic-like universe, will be a period of universal peace and prosperity. (Isa. 65:17-25) At the end of this period, Satan will be loosed from the pit, where he spent a thousand years; and, incredibly, he will go out one more time and assemble an army of unbelieving people from all the nations of the world—an army the number of which will be like the “sand of the sea”—to oppose the rule and reign of Jesus Christ. That unholy challenge to the King and Kingdom of God will, of course, be defeated, and Satan, along with all unbelievers (Great White Throne Judgment, Rev. 20:11-15) will be cast into the lake of fire, their eternal abode. The millennial earth will be destroyed by fire and replaced by a “new heaven and new earth,” which will come down from God out of heaven, the almost indescribable glory of which is recorded in Rev. 21,22.

    One more thing: John saw Jesus in his vision, and saw a preview of His coming in glory, recording that when He comes, “every eye shall see Him, and they also which pierced Him (the Pharisees who would settle for nothing but Christ’s crucifixion), and all kindreds of the earth shall wail because of Him.” (Rev. 1:7) Jesus, in the Mt. of Olives discourse, had told His disciples that he who endured to the end (of the tribulation) would be saved. (Matt. 24:13) Paul, in his “peek” into the future, revealed that when the fulness of the Gentiles had come, the blinders of His people would be lifted and “all Israel shall be saved.”(Romans 11:25,26) When they behold Him whom they (as a people) pierced, they will in mass wail in repentance—and, on the spot, accept Christ as King and Savior, thus entering into the Millennium as the Redeemed of the Lord.

    Unlike the Second Coming, which must be preceded by the gospel being preached to all nations, (Matt. 24:14; Rev. 14:6) nothing must occur before the imminent rapture of the Church. We who are His Bride are waiting for the sound of the shout and the voice of the archangel of God, announcing to the dead in Christ that it is time for them to rise, followed by the catching up together with them in the clouds of those who are alive at His coming—and so shall we ever be with the Lord. “Even so, come Lord Jesus.” Amen.

    Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness….” and, “Wherefore, beloved, seeing that ye look for such things, be diligent that ye may be found of Him in peace, without spot, and blameless.” (II Pet.3:11,14)

    On Being Kindly Affectioned

    A few days ago, at a warehouse shopping center, as I was approaching rows of shopping carts to pull one loose for my wife and myself to use as we made our way from aisle to aisle inside the huge store, a lady who was approaching the same rows of carts reached her cart first. In a total surprise to me, she said as she pushed her cart toward my still empty hands, “Here, take this one.”

    This kind lady was maybe twenty or thirty years younger than me, and she no doubt noticed that I was pretty old and somewhat unbalanced in my stride (due to cancer chemo, neuropathy, and/or side effects from meds), so she thoughtfully wanted to spare this old man the sometimes bothersome task of pulling a cart loose. I must admit, my first thought was to thank the lady and say something like, “Oh, that’s very nice of you, but I have always believed that a gentleman should first help a lady, and not vice-versa.” But, lo, I somehow got the “grace” to smile, thank her, and take the cart she pushed my way. I don’t know if I would react the same way tomorrow; it cuts against the grain of every ounce of manhood and dignity in me—to let a woman help me with a simple task. But I did this time, and I am surely grateful for a nice lady who could see that someone might need a helping hand.

    That incident happened about the time that I had been studying for a lesson on Romans 12:10a: “Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love.”

    There are a good many biblical exhortations in the New Testament that mandate believers to act kindly, including Col. 3:12: “Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind”; and II Pet. 1:7: “And to godliness (add) brotherly kindness”; and the classic admonition in Eph. 4:32: “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

    In the Old Testament, there is the covenant between Saul’s son, Jonathan, and the anointed but not yet crowned king, David. Jonathan asks his soul-mate, David, that he would “while yet I live shew me the kindness of the Lord, that I die not.” (I Sam. 20:14) Further, he adds: “But also thou shalt not cut off thy kindness from my house forever.” (v.15) Twenty-some years later, after David had escaped the sword of Saul—having  been driven to the caves and forests for safety—and was finally sitting on the throne as king in Jerusalem, he said, “Is there yet any that is left in the house of Saul that I may shew him kindness for Jonathan’s sake?” (II Sam. 9:3) The king was told that Jonathan did in fact have a living son, lame in the feet—Mephibosheth of Lodebar—and David instructed that Mephibosheth be brought at once to the palace. When the grandson of Saul was ushered into the king’s presence, he fell on his face; whereupon David said, “Fear not; for I will surely shew thee kindness for Jonathan thy father’s sake, and will restore thee all the land of thy father; and thou shalt eat bread at my table continually.” Mephibosheth, no doubt overcome with wonder, could only say, bowing, “What is thy servant, that thou shouldest look upon such a dead dog as I am?” (II Sam. 9:8)

    In Isaiah 54:8, God tells his estranged, rebellious people that though He had hid His face from them for a moment, “with everlasting kindness will I have mercy on thee” and “my kindness shall not depart from thee.” (Isa. 54:8,10) Nehemiah 9:17 says that God is of great kindness; Ps. 117:2 speaks of His kindness being merciful; and Titus 3:4 declares that “the kindness and love of God our Savior toward man appeared.”

    Two days after I was humbled by the incident with the shopping cart, Ellen and I were eating in a restaurant with some pastors and their wives. Ellen said that one of the wives suddenly excused herself from the table and went toward the restrooms. Sharing the story later, she said that she had noticed an older woman sitting in a booth eating by herself. At the end of her meal, the server brought the woman a piece of birthday cake, as is the custom with some restaurants when a customer is celebrating a birthday. The lonely lady had made her way to the restroom, followed by the pastor’s wife, who—when entering the restroom—introduced herself and explained she could not help noticing that she was eating by herself. She then asked, “Are you OK? Is there anything I can do to help?” The surprised lady replied, “Oh, no, I am fine. It is my birthday, and I have six children, but they are all hither and yon, so I am celebrating by myself today.” Then, the lady added, “But I am not alone; the Lord always sends someone my way that shows kindness to me, so everything is all right.” Kindness was shown that dinner hour; and kindness was received. Such mundane meetings—two ladies in a restroom at the same moment; one desiring to show some kindness, and one in need of some kindness. God is so very good—all the time!

    There is a striking statement in Proverbs 19:22, where Solomon says that “The desire of a man is his kindness.” That obviously doesn’t mean that a man desires kindness, but that what makes other men desire to be in the company of certain men is the kindness that they demonstrate. Kindness to his wife, his children, his associates at work, his neighbors. So many people today react angrily at the drop of a hat, so to speak. We hear about road rage and mass shootings over seeming trivialities on every evening news broadcast. Where is the man whose first and unfailing response—even to stressful situations—is kindness? It costs nothing, but surely reflects the attitude of our Savior who, when a woman taken in adultery was brought to her by wicked men expecting that Jesus would have her stoned, was told by the Lord—after all her would-be accusers left the scene, when Jesus said that the one without sin should cast the first stone—“Neither do I accuse thee; go and sin no more.”

    No lecture; no Old Testament verses of the Law recited; just a kind word to the broken, believing woman: Go, sin no more. Kindness emulated from the kindest of the kind! Selah.

    That in the ages to come He might shew the exceeding riches of His grace in His kindness toward us through Christ Jesus.” (Eph. 2:7)

    You And Your Abilities

    Text: “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” Phil. 4:13

    This is an oft-quoted verse from the pen of the apostle Paul, a God-called missionary who was put into situations that, apart from the grace of God, would have destroyed the man, his mission, and ministry. His opposition was fierce, but his faith in God was greater than any foe, so that he could say, with no hint of boasting, “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.”

    You can too, servant-son of God: all that He has called you to do; all that He has commanded you to do; all that He has commissioned you to do. With the empowerment of God the Holy Spirit indwelling you, and with the promises of God the Father propelling you; and with the person of God the Son compelling you, you can do “all things through Christ.”

    With that in mind, note with me:

    1. Your Potential
      All things. God and you make a majority in any community, the old evangelist used to say. (Dr. Bob Jones, Sr.) To prove it, Gideon, who claimed to be the “least” in all of his family in ancient Israel (Judges 6), was directed of God to take on the Midianites, who had trodden down Israel for seven years. After Gideon had wrestled with God’s will, raising objections and floating fleeces, he finally marshalled an army of 32,000 Israeli soldiers to go to battle. God told Gideon, though, that 32,000 was far too many; so, after giving any soldier who was fearful an opportunity to return home, Gideon was left with 10,000 men for war—still far too many, God told Gideon. Instructed by the Captain of his hosts, the Lord, to take the army to water’s edge and send home any soldier who did not lap the water—like a dog would with its tongue—with an alert eye on his surroundings, Gideon was left with 300 men of war. And with that incredibly pared-down number, God through Gideon defeated the Midianites. The lesson that God did not want Gideon or anyone else to lose was that it was not Israel winning by “mine own hand.” Instead, it was the power of Almighty God doing through this once fearful farmer what only God could do—so that Gideon could also say, “I can do all things through God which strengtheneth me.” And so can you!
    2. Your Purpose
      Our purpose in all and any service of the Lord Christ is to demonstrate what is the will of God concerning us (Rom. 12:1,2). And Paul defines (not describes) what is the will of God: that which is good, that which is acceptable, and that which is perfect (i.e., lends itself to our perfection or maturity in Christ).

      Second, our purpose as an enlisted volunteer in Christ’s army, is to abound in His work: “Be steadfast, always abounding in the work of the Lord.” (I Cor. 15:58)

      And, too, our purpose is to always obey His Word: “Only be strong and very courageous, that thou mayest observe to do all the law…that thou mayest observe to do all that is written therein…for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.” (Josh. 1:7,8)
    3. Your Practice
      ▶︎It is with accountability, Rom. 14:12: “So then everyone of us shall give account of himself to God.”
      ▶︎It is with adaptability, Rom. 14:10: “But why dost thou judge thy brother? or why dost thou set at nought thy brother? for we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ.”
      ▶︎It is with availability, Isa. 6:8: “And I heard the voice of the Lord, saying, Whom shall I send, and who will go for us? Then said I, Here am I Lord, send me.”
      ▶︎It is with believability, John 11:26: “And whosoever liveth and believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live.”
      ▶︎It is with compatibility, Mark 9:40: “For he that is not against us is on our part.”
      ▶︎It is with dependability, I Cor. 4:2: “Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful.”
      ▶︎It is with desirability, Mark 5:24: “And Jesus went with him; and much people followed him, and thronged him.”
    4. Your Pitfall
      I Pet. 5:6: Every servant of God will be challenged with a problematic pitfall. It will not necessarily be an insatiable lust for power, or pleasure, or possessions—but it will doubtless be the “snare” of Satan, which is pride. (I Tim. 3:6,7)
    5. Your Prayer
      Phil. 3:10-12: “That I might know Him, and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being made conformable unto His death; if by any means I might attain unto the resurrection of the dead. Not as though I had already attained, either were already perfect: but I follow after, if that I may apprehend that for which I am apprehended of Christ Jesus.”

    Till I come, give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine…Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy profiting may appear to all. Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save thyself, and them that hear thee.” (I Tim. 4:13, 15, 16)

    “Inside the Eastern Gate.”

    John and Rose Aker

    John and Rose Aker

    I am posting on this “You and God” blog today a devotional by a dear friend of mine, John Aker, whose writings have blessed and encouraged me for many years. John has had a storied life, including time in a monastery (before his conversion) as a young adult preparing for the priesthood; time serving our country in the United States Army; time serving several churches in successful pastorates and time serving as a CEO of health-care ministry. Most of our relationship has been through the printed page, but I admire his love for Christ and his ability to express his heart through the print medium. I think you will, too. I especially was moved by his tribute to his wife, Rose, in this blog, and by the hymns which he shared with us. If you want to receive John’s weekly “Thoughts for the Week,” contact him at: jba@akerjba.com

    Ecclesiastes–Although I have preached certain of its passages, so wise and wonderfully favored, I have never preached through Ecclesiastes in its entirety. Of late, I have been enjoying the privilege of being able to teach (but I do slip into a preaching quite often, I am sure) this challenging, and sometimes controversial book, verse by verse. I am learning and loving it as I go. For reasons prompted by our singing during Morning Worship last Lord’s Day, I’d like to share thoughts that linger with me…

    Although people typically associate Ecclesiastes with Solomon’s words, Vanity of vanity; all is vanity, this phrase is so often taken out of context . Without understanding that Solomon is writing from man’s perspective and not as God sees and intended it, life can be so meaningless, even mysterious–so much chasing after wind. Yes, he does speak of the monotony of life, the vanity of wisdom, the brevity of pleasure, the futility of wealth, and the triviality of power–but only for those who fail to recognize the necessity of God!

    Solomon challenges his readers to take a good hard look at life. This wisest of all men says, Look above (3:1-8) and recognize Sovereignty…Look within (3:9-14) and reflect on eternity…Look ahead (3:15-22) and reckon with inevitability. Then, as if trying to prove his point, he finally challenges us to look around ourselves (4:1-16) and realize the insatiability, the insufficiency/inability of this world’s stuffs to satisfy. And so, we can rightly conclude, without understanding the necessity of God’s perspective and His purpose, and without His Presence in our lives, it truly is vanity and striving after wind (4:16). Because the inevitability of it all is the unavoidable reality of death and the inescapable certainty of judgment

    Yet, in the midst of it, there is true comfort and hope. Tears, trials, and tribulations well describe the commonality of life as it is in the here and now. It can be so demanding, difficult, even dangerous when navigated alone. But Solomon says it need not be that way:

    During my monastic years, alone in my monastery cell, I often wondered what it would be like to be warm with another on those cold and lonely nights. After leaving the monastery, and while serving with United States Army Intelligence, I met and married a young woman working in Counterintelligence Analysis Branch. In just a few short weeks, Lord willing, we will celebrate, by God’s grace, our sixtieth wedding anniversary–and I have never forgotten the privilege of being warm together with my dear bride (and her cold feet). There are so many nights, overwhelmed with love and joy, I reach out and place my hand softly on her head as I thank God for gifting me with one so precious to me, who am truly undeserving and unworthy of my Rosebud–not sweet syrupy sentiment, just the truth! God knows…

    We have become the two–here to help each other, here to be warm in our love–and on 30 March 1968, after three years of marriage, we repented and embraced Christ as Lord. He, and He Alone, is The Third Strand Who has kept our bond strong/steadfast.

    In my eighties now, and married sixty years, the inevitable is ever before me–but we are all, each and every one of us, just a breath aways from eternity. There is nothing morbid in that thought. For those who love God and come to Him through Jesus Christ, in repentance and genuine faith, He has planned so much more! God has been so good to me–I could ask for nothing more.

    He has saved me and entrusted me with so many treasures to enjoy–my godly parents who led us to The Lord…my brothers and sisters, Alan and Irene, Larry and Judy…our three lovely daughters, Laurie, Natalie, and Jana…sixteen beautiful grandchildren–eight of whom are married, another soon to be…twenty-two great-grandchildren…my furry friend, and constant companion, Rusty…and, most precious of all, my bride of sixty years–who has loved me, inspired me, and dared to stay with me in spite of me–my Rosebud! I have been, I am, richly blessed…

    But, the inevitability of life is fast approaching (but holds no fear because my Great Shepherd, The Lord Jesus, has promised, short of His Second Coming, to walk me through the valley of big shadows and bring me Home) and ever before me. Now back to the past Lord’s Day and the singing mentioned in my opener above…

    I truly enjoy praising God in song with our Church Family that so obviously loves to sing. I delight in the hymns, so lofty in their rich theology, and I enjoy the great gospel songs, so lively in their soteriology. For some reason, each selection took us beyond our now to time with our loving Father for all eternity. At the very heart of each message was heaven. As you read on you might find yourself remembering their almost forgotten words and melody:

    Jesus has a table spread
    Where the saints of God are fed
    He invites His chose people
    Come and dine…

    And…

    When we all get to heaven
    What a day of rejoicing that will be
    When we all see Jesus
    We’ll sing and shout the victory…

    And…

    O they tell me of a home far beyond the skies
    O they tell me of a home far away
    O they tell me of a home where no storm clouds rise
    O they tell me of an unclouded day…

    More…

    There is coming a day
    When no heartaches shall come
    No more clouds in the sky
    No more tears to dim the eye
    All is peace forevermore
    On that happy golden shore
    What a glorious day that will be…

    And why that glorious day…

    Face to Face with Christ my Savior
    Face to face what will it be
    When with rapture I behold Him
    Jesus Christ Who died for me

    Face to face I shall behold Him
    Far beyond the starry sky
    Face to face in all His Glory
    I shall see Him by and by..

    And in each of these the tears in my eyes and the pause in my singing reminded me of how glorious that day will truly be. But, in the midst of the joy of such promise, such praise, there was a moment of pain, of sorrow that the truth of each these signaled the inevitable: that as I reach out to grasp the Hand of my Savior, I must also let go of my dear Rose’s hand…

    But the choir selection, a song I sang often with my staff in Tucson, almost dissolved me in tears:

    I will meet you (in the morning, I will meet you (in the morning)
    Just inside the Eastern Gate over there.
    I will meet you (in the morning, I will meet you (in the morning)
    I will meet you in the morning over there.
    If you hasten off to glory
    Just linger near the Eastern Gate
    For I’m coming in the morning;
    And you’ll not have long to wait.

    It will be a glorious day! To be with Jesus–and all the saints, our saved loved ones who have gone before. And The greatest joy will simply and truly be that of being with Jesus…and then knowing our saved loved ones will be there. I do not know definitively what relationships we might enjoy with family and friends–but I anticipate enjoying The Presence of our great God, the beauty and personality of Our Loving Father, The Son, Our Lord and Savior Jesus, and The Holy Spirit Whom we have known through His whispers of love–and all this with my Rose…

    It is not death that bothers me–it is the thought of leaving this one who has loved me so selflessly, so faithfully, and so unconditionally. It is of her I think , with an ache in my heart, tears in my eyes, and a catch in my throat, when I hear those words…

    I will meet you (in the morning), I will meet you (in the morning)
    Just inside the Eastern Gate over there.

    But there is still so much more inside The Eastern Gate:

    I Corinthians 2:9

    And it will truly be joy unthinkable, love unspeakable…

    Revelation 21:3-5a

    Until The Eastern Gate,

    John

    Jason’s Story

    He is my nephew, the son of Ellen’s sister and brother-in-law. They are North Carolina “Tar Heels” to the core. Living for the best part of their lives in Asheville, they now live close to where it all began for these descendants of Marvin and Carrie Beshears—in North Wilkesboro, North Carolina, at the foot of the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains.

    Jason has lived the life of many an offspring of Christian parents. He is the product, for the most part (grades K-8), of a Christian-school education. He grew up attending fundamental, Bible-preaching churches. He made a profession of faith as a young child, whereupon he followed the Lord in believer’s baptism. He was a good student, an obedient (only) child, and before graduating from high school he had achieved a license to fly a small aircraft, solo. Upon graduating from high school, he attended college and pursued and achieved a license to fly planes commercially. Jason lost his desire to become a commercial pilot, met and married his wife while in his mid-twenties, and fathered two sons, all the while still attending church services.

    For the next 20 years, Jason supervised the operation of a popular, family-oriented outdoor amusement park in Orlando. His marriage suffered some rocky, violent storms and eventually ended in divorce. Jason dropped out of church and, for several years in the early 2000s, “lived as though there was no God.” He drank alcohol but says, for him, it was not an addiction but only a “means to an end.” He devolved for several years deep into sin, abandoning his fellowship with God and burying, or trying to bury, any moral moorings that he had once adhered to for stability in his life. He was valued by his employer, made lots of money during those years, and traveled extensively—all in pursuit of some fulfillment which, of course, was always still awaiting him. He never was happy, and there was some sense that a “shoe was going to drop” at any time.

    What I have described many people who are reading this can, without doubt, identify with. A child, a friend, a once fellow, faithful church member who hit the skids spiritually and dropped out of everything that had to do with God, church, or the Bible.

    The story has been and is being repeated ad nauseum in every Christian community, church, fellowship—and in far too many Christian homes.

    But thankfully, Jason’s story did not end with the dropping of the shoe, even though some really hard times came to him and his family. I will not spell out the details of those events.

    One of Jason’s sons attended a Bible college in Florida, and since it was a short drive from where Jason lived and worked, he drove to the Bible college and attended the Sunday worship services with his son. Through the strong, faithful preaching of the pastor-college president, Sunday after Sunday, Jason’s spiritual sensitivities were awakened. He knew that God was dealing with him, and he made a decision, in 2020, to return to his roots in North Carolina. His boss wept when Jason tendered his resignation. While making two trips back to North Carolina as he moved his belonging via a U-Haul, he tuned in to a Christian radio station and heard more Bible preaching. Jason’s life was changing moment by moment.

    After settling back into the Wilkesboro area, Jason began searching for a church to attend. One Wednesday night he visited a church, tucked away in the mountains, near to where his great-grandparents had lived decades earlier. It “so happened” that the pastor of that little white-framed church was a second cousin of Jason’s—they only knew each other as acquaintances. This became home to a prodigal son that, once so very far away from God, was given an opportunity to come back to a loving Savior who was waiting with opened arms.

    Jason grew much in Christ the next few years. Today, he is an adult Sunday School teacher in his church, and also the pianist. He never dreamed of teaching a Sunday School class or of playing the piano in the services. He had taken piano lessons all the way through school, but when wandering in the fields of sins, the piano was not on his “radar screen” in any sense of the word. When he finished high school, he was quite proficient in piano; when he came back to Christ and His church, he couldn’t even identify the keys. But he is taking lessons, and since there is a need, he is willing to do what he can, and the piano is coming back to him without too much effort.

    Jason’s story has not concluded yet, obviously. But when asked what one event occurred in his life that caused him to abandon the world’s “pigs-pens” and return to his Heavenly Father, Jason says it was hearing the messages when attending church on Sundays, just to be with his son, plus the messages on Christian radio that he heard when moving back to the Carolinas. He knows, too, that the Holy Spirit was always “dogging” him, and that the prayers of many people followed him at every turn.

    So, friend, parent, grandparent, church member, pastor—do not give up on that prodigal child who seems so impossibly far away from God. No one has drifted further than Jason did from his moorings, teaching, and training. God’s Spirit is not limited by time or space. He can follow your loved one to places you would never dare to go. His arm knows no limits. Prayer, love, and patience can win them back to Jesus. Do not give in; do not give up. With God, nothing is impossible.

    I was sinking deep in sin, far from the peaceful shore; very deeply stained within, sinking to rise no more; but the Master of the sea, heard my despairing cry, from the waters lifted me, now safe am I! Love lifted me, love lifted me—when nothing else could help, love lifted me.”

    (James Rowe, Howard Smith)

    But he that lacketh these things (faith, virtue, knowledge, temperance, patience, godliness, brotherly kindness, charity) is blind, and cannot see afar off, and hath forgotten that he was purged from his old sins.” (II Peter 1:8)